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Question: Failed questions!. sad response!!?
last night i sat with my wife and spoke about our problems!. i explained that im not trying to be insensitive to her situation!. i also offered other means of taking care of my needs without her doing much but some participation on her behalf would be appriciated, and very helpful!. her response was i have no desire for sex so how will i be able to assist you, when i dont want to be touched or touch anybody!. yet she feels that im about to stray!. maybe thats the best thing to do, find someone to take care of that alone!. im so torn!Www@QuestionHome@Com
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Obviously, seeing a marriage counselor should be your first step!. There had to have been a time that you loved each other!. Sex was undoubtedly a part of that time!. I don't know what's happened to your marriage to make her change her attitude so completely but, if she still loves you and you her, you need counseling to get back on track!. Without knowing your ages--is she maybe going through the change!? I take a medication that I buy on-line (Google it) or at my local health food market or vitamin store!. It's called Steel Libido and helped me get through the change when I found my sex drive waning!.
I hope this helps some!. But, if you still love her, do not cheat!. And if you love her no longer, get a divorce first!. Cheating is never the right answer!.
Good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
sounds a little like OCD is it that she thinks its dirty somehow!. has this always happened!? maybe she thinks its over and shes trying to make you make the first move so she can blame you!. God knows what goes on in womens mind!. is she still a virgin have you consumated the marriage!.
maybe asking for a child would clear up the sex issue as after all the point is to have a baby not buy condoms!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
sex is not the only thing between husband and wife
there is something more that comes between hus and wife
give secondary importance to sex just u care ur wife , relax her if she is in depress mood !. if u r free make some coffee for her !. give her feeling that u love her , but dont force her for sex dont even ask for it but u should always give her feeling that u loves her and u cares her
GOD BLESS UWww@QuestionHome@Com
Dude! You don't cheat! You get her help and you too! Things like this are a part of a relationship!. Being truely commited is
having to deal with problems!. All problem!. If sex is so important to you then maybe
you should see
a counselor or rent an adult movie and enjoy yourself!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com
See a marriage counselor!. Don't cheat, that will make your problems even worse!. Good luck!. Www@QuestionHome@Com