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Question: Do you feel alone or unsure in the decisions that you make, what you think is right, your values!?
I am a person who truly believes that I make the right choices, that I do the right thing!. That, in general and in my life, I do what I can to do what I think is good, but sometimes I just feel so alone!. I feel like no matter how I try, people don't see who I am, that the people around me are too immature, or selfish or self-centered, that my efforts are no good!. I wonder why I feel so out of touch with others around me!. I doubt myself, wonder what I'm doing wrong, if changing myself would make me happier!. I wonder if it's me, if I'm blind to others, maybe I don't live my life as I should!. I understand this is a vague question, but can any of you relate!? Do you ever think you just don't belong!? That your judgement that you believed at one point was right, is wrong!? That your values are not worth it!? That you're the only one who thinks this way!? That there's no one you could ever really trust!? Lots of questions, whatever you have to say is fine with me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
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!.!.!.im confident in my decisions!.!.!.
!.!.!.i have no expectations!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
trust is the key issue!. Just remember trust is something that is earned by being honest!. trust those that trust you and do not betray their trust that is the key to life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
It seems that your values and interests are on a different level than your peers!.
Find those who share your interests and values, and don't concern yourself with those who don't!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
What type of a person are you socially!? I ask this because the answer to your question depends a lot on your interaction with society!. I mean, I think if you really felt lonely, if you really felt like you didn't belong, like there was no connection with anything and anyone then you would do all you could to lead a solitary existence!.
Try changing yourself and keep searching for your purpose!. I have learned within these short 3 years that it's ok to be the 'lone wolf', especially when your in school!. It's rare that I find out that one other person who I can say I truly connect to, but they're there!. You just have to wait patiently until you stumble upon each other!.
I have tried changing myself!. In the beginning, I felt like I was drowning in a big hole of darkness!. But I decided to change, to have a little bit of interaction with the world, to be outspoken in class (I don't mean just to say stupid, useless verbal garbage), I guess to not be in the crowd but become a leader!.
Through my search I have found one thing that I truly like doing, teaching kids how to make music!.
If you're in school I suggest you involve yourself in different things and hopefully you'll find something that makes you happy!. I mean at school I know people, I call them acquaintances!. They are just inevitably part of my life and I have to accept them!. You know!? And just make the best of them!.
I hope I answered something or you got some type of helpful advice from me!. Sometimes I tend to stray from the question!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
First of all i don't mean any offence by my responce!. it sounds like you expect too much from the people your talking about!. i don't think you appreciate others and therefore you don't allow them to appreciate you!. you said that the people around you are too immature, self centred or selfish - i think that says more about you than about them!. how can you expect respect or understanding from anyone, if you dont try to understand others - it's the 'give to recieve' argument!. your feelings of not belonging are probably, in part, down to your own feelings of superiority - try to remember that you cant judge others just because they are differant from you!. you will never connect with anyone if you put yourself on another level from them!. i don't think its a question of your values or morals, just a question of your own self-image and how you compare yourself to others!. No offence ment - just responding to the question!. I hope it helps x Www@QuestionHome@Com
Hello, I am a deep thinker and I believe that you are too!. It seems that
so many people don't even think they just decide and do something
without thinking it out!. I think as you do that I consider all things and
ponder the situations well before I act on anything!. When we see others so blaze' about things it makes us question ourselves sometimes!. I think it takes all kinds to make up a world and that You and I belong here to do our part too!. Good question!.Www@QuestionHome@Com