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Question: Is Cruelty a Punishment For Kindness!?
How Can People Be So Cruel
when you are kind to them!.
I used to be friends with these 2 sisters, bringing them homemade meals when they were depressed, or sick!. Visited them in the hosptial when they got injured numerous occasions, and offered to take them anywhere when they needed help, and encouraged them generally!. I was raised to be good and kind to others!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Now, they've been saying I should ask them out for dinners at a restaurant, and then cancelling 3X to say they are busy!. They told me once to get out of their house because she wanted me to comment on her home, and I didn't say anything!. One got a job and says she is a celebrity and can only associate with people her level, and she is extremely racist to my race, and others!. It's like I'm seeing all the uglieness and meanness come out of them 2 and I'm wondering why did they NEED me!? Or was I being Had!?
She even told me she had a gift for me and to come and pick it up at her home!. Then days later she calls me and lost the gift!. Then she calls and says she'll mail the gift and never did!. ** I never asked for anything, nor wanted it!.
She asked me to pick up some magazines that she wanted thrown out, and I said what kind are they!? She yelled "what kind do you expect, why are you asking!?" I mean very demeaning!.
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Dont loose ur heart
its the world that no one can understand
all want friends only when they needed no one cares abt u who we are do we need anything ,
go dont stop help others dont hope anything return if some one hurt u forget wat they did bcoz i am sure that they will come back to u bcoz not u but they have lost such a good friend that is difficult to get!.!.!.
GOD BLESS U keep on helping othersWww@QuestionHome@Com
I think that you have been taken advantage of!. It's not a question of whether or not you are doing the right thing, it's whether or not the people that you are helping deserve it, and from what I see, they don't!. Kindness deserves kindness in kind, and I hope you find that, but if you can't expect it from your current relations, then I suggest you move on!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
It seems like they have become accustomed to your kindness and generosity!. They also seem to have manipulative qualities as well!. The world is short on nice people and you are one of the few!. A friendship should be reciprocal, you do nice things for a friend and they return the favor!. Once things become lopsided, somebody is being taken advantage of!. Don't let them push you around!.
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Sad to say it sounds as though you have been taken advantage of!. Do not lose your spirit of kindness, caring and generosity because of these 2 people just let them go, move on with your life without them!.
There comes a time when you must draw the line, when your kindness can be abused!. It sounds like that time has come!. Good luck to you!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
They don't deserve you!. Kindness is a wonderful thing, but some people will just take advantage of you!. There's no point in continuing to be so kind to these two sisters - they will ensure you always come out feeling sh*t!. Be kind to people who appreciate it, don't bother with people who drain you :)Www@QuestionHome@Com
You have so been used! There is an old saying "No good deed goes unpunished"!. Just ditch this pair!. You don't need this in your life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Ignore them until they come begging for forgiveness!. My guess is 2 weeksWww@QuestionHome@Com
they r only jealous of ur goodness!. they cant be like u!. dont let em push u around!. maybe u shd give them space!. Www@QuestionHome@Com