What is one of your defining moments? ?

Question: What is one of your defining moments!? !?
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Tough Question!. I guess it would depend on how you define the term!. Probably the biggest for me was learning I was going to be a dad!. I've become completely different since then!. I don't think I was a very good person for a great deal of my life!. Learning I was going to have a daughter kind of snapped me back to the path of who I was trying to become when I was growing up!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

1!.- the day I found out I have feekings
2!.- one day I had a coffee and chat with my mother, instead of going out with my friends or one ex I had in those days
3!.- when my sister was born
4!.- when my brother was born
5!.- the day me and this girl I dated for 6 years broke up with me, I was with my friends after, and then I moved the next day
6!.- the day I saw my family again
7!.- or also the day I left a would be a prominent career in sports and traded it for singing and playing guitarWww@QuestionHome@Com

Thanks for asking this question,

'To explain one of my defining moment I first
like to explain a little more about this specific defining moment
to better understand what's it all about!.!.!.,'

It's about how I started wondering if it was possible to create an eBook, one that I could sell online, one that people really want to have, one that really could be interesting enough for them, and that they could find valuable enough to actually buy!.

'also wondering if I could make it all
happen technically'

Meaning being able to figure out how to write a compelling eBook to begin with, than how to make an actual downloadable eBook from it that I could actually sell online!. Making it all work with Credit Card Processing, to be able to receive payments, to be able to have an automatic 'Thank You Massage' for people that bought my tiny little eBook, to be able to offer additional products or services to my readers, to be able to receive feedback from readers etc!. etc!.

'In short how to make it all work'!.

Knowing all this you can Imagine that when I saw my first actual payment comming in, it was definitely a defining moment to me! Especially considering that I didn't even know if it was at all possible that people would like my eBook enough to actally buy it to begin with!!! (BTW you can find a free preview of this little eBook at: http://www!.lulu!.com/hpvanduuren )

'I have this first payment pasted on
the wall at my 'Headquarter'!.'

(BTW I know that in a somewhat similar way Huge Hefner has
a 5 Dollar Bill hanging on his wall, because the refusal of a 5 Dollar raise in salary made him discide to work for himself and
make his own magazine!.)

All the Best,
To your Happy - defining moments finding - Inspiration,
HPWww@QuestionHome@Com

Remenbering childhood abuse - I had a flashback on my way home to the station and couldn't walk my knees were so wobbly - It explained so much - It was like a shaft of light entering my darkness - Like touching base - touching realness - It was hell on wheels but led me to a lot of self acceptance eventually and successfully confronting one of the abusers!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

when my life was so low that i thought bleeding would satisfy the gaping hole inside me!.!.!. and i saw a LIGHT!. and His name is Jesus!. He saved me!. long ago, He died because He was so madly in love with me and couldn't bear the thought of being away from me forever!. so He died and then rose again, conquering death for me! He saved me at that moment and all i had to do was believe it! well i did! and now i'm free!. i'm whole!. i was made new!. and now i live for Him with every breath inside of me because i'm so thankful!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Having a family of my own is the greatest defining moment in my life!. At the time my daughter was born four years ago!. I could say i have my own family to raise and give them the best in life!.

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Meeting the real me, and realising that I only have to be true to myself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

In the delivery room watching my son being born!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

scoring the winning goal at my final soccer game of this yearWww@QuestionHome@Com

Start to reach GoalWww@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.met the love of my LIFE!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com