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Question: I love to be very!.!.!.!?

I love to dominate people, order them about, be really bossy, give out chores to do!. Is that really bad!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Hello!. It is not really bad!. Don't doubt yourself!. Just as long as you keep it at a respectable level!. If you don't treat the people like dirt and think that you are superior enough to order them around!. But this habit is very well liked by many people in society!. Some of them will deny it and others will become dictators!. But I doubt that just because you like to give people orders that you will become a dictator!. Unless you REALLY want to!. But don't be down on yourself!. also, if someone tells you that it is bad then you can just give them an order to go to Canada!. Good bye!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It isn't really bad, but people will get a bad impression of you!. You just want to be a leader, but sometimes (I know, it's happened to me) you can go overboard!. Try to let everyone do something and listen to everyone's ideas!. Share the work equally and think before you say or do something that might hurt someone's feelings!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

When my children were younger we had a revolving chore of being 'pig of the week' Whilst the cook of the day was making dinner everyone tidied up with 'the pig of the week' organising the chores what was to be done and who did what - It was so everyone had a go at making the house tidy in the way that they wanted it - recogising that tidiness is relative!. It was interesting how bossy we became when allowed to do so, and how resistant we all were to some brands of bossiness!.

I think it is only bad for you yourself if you don't find a good outlet and also if you can't share and share alike and be bossed in turn!.

It is a skill but can turn into a power for manipulation and that isnt pretty!.

i dont know how young you are but it seems really good that you recognised it in your self and maybe now the thing to do is to hone the skill and learn how to do it in a way that doesn't alienate others or brutalize yourself!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

ya that is really bossy!. Why dont you focus all that domination into the sack so its produced in a more possitive manner!. If you order people around and treat them as if youre superior they are not going to like or respect you anymore and youll find yourself with less and less friends!. Tone it down and be logical as to when a person needs guidance as to when or what to do!. Remember, everyone has their own mind and no one likes it when others interfer with their free will!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Its not bad to like it, but it is a bad thing if you carry it out when its inappropriate, because its not something that's uncontrollable, you do have the choice to put yourself in their shoes and think to yourself "im being a total prat im going to stop dong this even though i enjoy it"Www@QuestionHome@Com

There is a leader in everyone!. Defined in man's DNA, Survival of the Fittest!.

It's not about dominating people, rather, about how you dominate them!.

You only have power, if others give it to you!. I think they have the real power!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

"Dominate"!? Be a lord over!? "Bad" isn't the word for that kind of rude, insulting behavior!. You will open your mouth to me in that fashion just once!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well, um!. !. !.it will bother people!. !. !.A LOT!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

yep people will class u as a!.!.!.!. w a n k e r but if u like that thing join the army they will beat it outta u and one day if u stick it u will have your own gimps to shout atWww@QuestionHome@Com

yes!. it is, expecially if your someone like me who has submissive problems!. im afraid me and you!.!. wouldnt get along together if we meet up!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's only bad if you abuse someone!. Maybe you should be an army sergeant!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

no thats not bad -sooner or later someone will punch youre lights out -tell us when that happens ,thanks Www@QuestionHome@Com

It'll make you a good manager trainee at whatever Taco Bell you land in!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well if it makes you happy!. You might end up like me!. The Happy Man!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah!. It is!. SO STOP ASKING QUESTIONS AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!Www@QuestionHome@Com

would you like it to be done to you!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

yep!Www@QuestionHome@Com

and if you tried that with me, you'd end up in hospitalWww@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah it's called being an ***!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes it's not very nice to think when you've gone everyone feels happy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.not at all, hope you find them!.!.!.
!.!.!.good luck!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com