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Question: How difficult is it to be humble!?
Do you struggle with that!? What do you do to avoid being "full of yourself"!?
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It is completely pouring out your heart, mind and soul of 'self'!
It is relinquishing "Self" to God, in all it's entirety!.
The only way I learned was to try to take my own life! (There are much easier ways!.)
Once you have emptied out of self, this enables god to fill your heart with all His Love!. Then it spills out all over, infecting everyone in your path! Pretty neat, huh!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

A humble heart, true humility is born of a sensory perception and intuitiveness of the pain and ordeal of others!. Ones heart hardens and becomes impervious to the boastful rantings of the feasting worms bloated drunk upon the blood of suffering souls!. It is difficult to be tolerant of such immune braggarts!.

Although at times in abject despair, one senses about them the suffering and mental anguish of little ones and is humbled the way broken souls lend so much to others in times the avaricious are insatiable in their frenzied desire for attention!.

I am easily humbled by humanity and graciousness, hardened by the scheming deceptions of the treacherous!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It can be very difficult unless you keep yourself around people who are not on an ego trip!. Vain egotistical types will pounce upon the opportunity to use you as a door mat if you are not in the competitive egocentric realm of egotism along with them!. Ego is the only way they have of relating to others!. So, if you can find even a few friends who are not vain, then you will find it easy!. Companionship is much more enjoyable when one is not trying to hype up one's image of oneself before others, but instead one is just being oneself!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Being humble is not difficult at all!. Provided there is no wrong being done to you and you are not doing any wrong to anyone!. However, if you find some wrong and the situation demands your humbleness, there are three ways to counter the evil issue;

1!. Counter the evil-doer with physical force (a humble use of force, not violent)
2!. Verbally ask the evil-doer to stop doing!. (humbly of course)
3!. Think about that evil-doer as wrong in your head and move on!. (humbly, walking away without doing anything about the evil)!.

Now, the 3rd option is the usually understood "humble" way to counter any difficult situation or person!. When it is NOT!. It is basically the weakest and the most coward way to tackle an issue!. Pls!. notice that by suggesting any sort of action or verbal defense, I kept the word (humbly) there to emphasize that even during the use of force, you can remain humble, disciplined and understanding as opposed to being a crazy fanatic!.

hope, you understood the real meaning of being humble, without being "too much" humble to let evil destroy your or other's lives or peace of mind!.

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Humility is the most important of all virtues!. Without it, we run the risk of taking action based on delusions (i!.e!., being out of touch with reality), and that never ends well for anyone!.

Of course, we all operate on impulses that are difficult to distinguish from what is best for everyone concerned, and so are rarely humble in our behaviors!.

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Being humble is a habit that we cultivate our-selves
#1!. Not to judge others or our-selves, for NOW is never still and people changes,
#2!. Not to hold on to our own ideas for we are not to the stage of perfection yet!.
Holding on to such ideas will only close up our mind!.
#3!. Not to argue with the unreasonable as it is pointless (does it make sense to force the cow to drink water if the cow refuse to drink!?!?!?)
#4!. Not to fight for right or wrong but to observe with patience!. Things happen with a reason, fighting for it will only result in more fight, thus fight became a habit!.
#6!. Not to subject yourself to abuse, avoid it if possible!.
If abuse is unavoidable, self-defense is needed without any anger apply!.
#&………

Forgive me for not continuing the list, for the topic on humbleness is LOOOOOONG!.

When I started to practice humbleness, I got stress out!.
The attachment to gain, loss, praise, blame pleasure, pain, fame and infame have make me “a fool of myself”
Be aware of the above 8 temptation and patiently detached myself from them is how I avoid being a fool again!.

As time passed, the reward of being humble is fruitful!.
And the habit of humbleness is stronger!.

Please do not give up being Humble
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its hard to find fault in ourselves but much eaier to find fault in everything else

Yes, i do stuggle with being humble, i guess i have too much pride, i must understnad that pride will lead to my downfall

I always try to avoid being full og yourself, i read the bible by hearing the word of God, i feel differentWww@QuestionHome@Com

I don't actively pursue being humble!. However, it used to be a main goal of mine, and here are some things I kept in mind:

1!. While it is good to be confident, there are always people "better" at whatever it is I'm trying to do!. This is neither bad nor good, but a fact of life!.

2!. We aren't meant to be "perfect", but always keep searching and learning and improving!.

3!. Everyone is different, and just because I'm good at something doesn't mean I'm "better" than another person!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You want to be humble!. Try going to your local food store!. Tripping by the Dairy case!. We are talking YARD SALE! Landing on the back of your boyfriends calf as you slide down his leg!. Try gracefully picking yourself up from that one!. Oh, and not to forget to wipe off the lipstick all over the back of his leg ;) There's a good girl!.

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Real humility is the sign of an elevated soul!. When you master your egos instead of being puppetted by them, then humility sets in, naturally!. I still struggle with a few egos of mine but I'm getting there with an older age!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

you cannot 'do humbleness you can only be humble!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

well being that humans are born completely egocentric and its part of thier human qualities its probably pretty hard!. the best way to go at it is to look at things from everyone's possible view!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Some days are harder than others!. I feel the more I am into my ego the harder it is to humble myself!. I keep my mouth shut when I'm to full of myself!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Actually it is very easy to be humble ; but we don't try !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

very difficult!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's hard to be humble when your perfect in every wayWww@QuestionHome@Com

not difficult as far as nothing can scratch my dignity!.

"A wise man has much to learn without a loss of dignity!."__SOPHOCLES

love
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