Do you think hunting for love never brings us the right partner?

Question: Do you think hunting for love never brings us the right partner!?
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I agree, i had a friend who was forever looking for a partner and love and she just found the wrong type of partner that didnt last too long, or she would spend ages asking me why she just couldnt find what she was looking for!. I told her to relax and stop looking so hard and then it will just happen when it is supposed to!. Needless to say, she took my advice and today is happily married with 2 children!. In my experience, if you try too hard to find love, it just wont happen!. You have to wait until it finds you!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I couldn't agree with you more rita, I think this is so true!. When you rush love, and are just taking what you can get, you are not really loving someone, and you are not loving yourself by doing this!. Love is such a precious thing, and to be hunted for is just horrible!. Love is all around us, and just because you don't have the kind of love you see on tv, does not mean that one day you wont fine her perfect soul mate!. It takes time, and some people don't want to wait!. There is this guy at my work, who has been hunting for a girlfriend because he thinks that will solve his problems!. What he doesn't know is that by him doing that it makes me feel low and like I am just another one on his shelf!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't think there's anything wrong with hunting for love!. It'll bring you to a lot of different types of people and you'll have to sort through them all!. The caution (as is the case in any hunting scenario) is that during the hunt your focus is on one thing, the hunt!.!.!.in love you've got to be open to everything and anything!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

no i don't think so!. hunting is necessary!. perhaps hoping too much for it and forcing the issue!. so i guess the hunt needs to be spread more person to person and less within one specific individual!. so, try to change people less, or hope they will be different less, and instead try to find someone different that comes stock as a good fit!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Do you have to use that word!.!.!.'hunting'!? :) :) :)

Either you hunt for love or for the right partner!. I have seen plenty of 'love marriages' fail because the partner just didn't turn out 'right'!. You would know this more than me because in America people are never 'forced' to marry!. They fall in love!.!.!.marry!.!.!.and separate after few years!. There has to be something terribly wrong with this whole concept!.

Right or tailor-made partners do not exist *period*

Both have to adjust a bit here or a bit there to make things right!.!.!.and love is the grease that minimises friction!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Probably;hunting used to be o!.k!.

But now some,inc me,dont think that its o!.k!.
Although i take the point that "hunting for love"may not involve violence and that someone may not get relatively hurt,either!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

funny you should ask this because today after getting dumped i came to this realization!. i think that fate will lead you to love by circumstance, and hunting for it will only prolong this!. just live you life day to day and see what happens!Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!. People do what they feel is best, at the time, and then justify it to themselves and others if something out of the ordinary occurs!. We're only human!. I wouldn't spend too much time analyzing this!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

The play of hormones chooses the partner!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

or will bring only the right partner with keen discernment,
which can indeed be a treasure hunt!.

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we are the prey
love is the predator!.

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just be and it will find you!.!.!.prime example mine found me:) OH and yes!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Most of the time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com