Can you make a decison in your life be willing to change when you see certain pa

Question: Can you make a decison in your life be willing to change when you see certain patterns in your life!?

Or do you prefer not to change but have the situations in your life change!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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I find when I am able to see certain patterns in my life, the willingess to change just comes & happens!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Rita, I personally do not think we can "change" who we are!. We can however, make an effort to behave a certain way depending on the situations we find ourselves in!. No person should part with his own individuality and become that of another!. I for one don't want to be a carbon copy of someone else; I want to make my own impression!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I hate change and to be honest, it scares me, but i am perfectly willing to dive into it!. How else will i get ahead and keep moving in life!?

Certain patterns are comforting, but you can find a pattern in anything!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only where my weight or diet is concerned!. Otherwise, I don't engage in destructive behavior, so I don't have to change that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i try to change if its to improve myself but try to change the situation if it improves things!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Situations in life change you!.!.!.willy-nilly!!!

There's no choice or preference!.!.!.at times but to submit!.

Great winds break the trees which do not bend!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

We have to adapt to life not vice versa!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

adaptability is the key to survival and success!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Take a big 2x4 for some to change !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

we all change whether we prefer to or not!.!. but it's usually easier if your choose to do so consciously!. so yes, I do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com