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Position:Home>Philosophy> When Love Is Not Blind..?Question: When Love Is Not Blind!.!.!? Would you choose to marry your ONE TRUE LOVE even if he/she looks like an ogre/ogress with bones all twisted up (scoliosis), with a high possibility that your offspring may be born twisted pixie!?
Or rather, Would you settle for the second best who you may NOT truly love but knowing that the 'perfect' he/she will be a perfect companion for all occasions, will produce 'perfect' offspring and who will be a great dad/mom to the kids!? Www@QuestionHome@Com Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I will go for the latter!. Marriage is always full of twists and turns!. You'll never know what you are going to get with that 'one true love'!. Maybe he will eat you up and swallow all your bones in the end!. It's the instinct of an ogre after all!. And no way would I want my offspring to look like an ogre!! I rather opt for something that will give me a peaceful mind at the end of it all!. Love doesn't conquer everything!. That's the bitter lesson I have learnt!.Www@QuestionHome@Com If he is your true love go with it, Looks are only skin deep true love is forever!.!.You dont have to have kids ADOPT there are so many kids out there that need a home with loving people and by the sound of it you are a great person and are looking at a great relationship with the man you love what a great gift it would be to share with a child that dose not have that chance to share a great home with a loving Mom and Dad !.!.!.any one can be a mother and a father but it take special people like you and your love to be a MOM and DAD !.!.!.!.good luck Www@QuestionHome@Com i was involved with a guy who was suffering from serious mental issues!. plus he had some physical issues as well!. ofcourse i did not know about them when we first started the relationship!. I always wanted to have kids of my own, well i still do!. that was/is the main reason why i involve myself in serious relationships instead of going for random guys!. anyhow, when i found out about the seriousness of his mental issues, i had to choose between 'being with him' or 'having a kid', cuz he is not in a situation to father any child!. i wasn't in love with him, i just loved him (not even that deep to be blind)!. but i chose to be with him, couldnt let me leave a person just because he was no more good enough!.!.!.i don't think one should treat others like toilet papers and use them then loose them!. p!.s!. ofcourse, later i was used and then loosed!.!.!.(dumped by him) lol Www@QuestionHome@Com umm!. Tough question!.!. Is there a third option!? Like someone that you are truly in love with, but they may not have the best looks!. but isnt ugly!. just normal!. I'll take the 3rd one!! Www@QuestionHome@Com thankfully denial exists!. so the first never existed!. nothing second best!. Www@QuestionHome@Com If love isn't blind in this situation, could I be just blind for love!?Www@QuestionHome@Com |