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Question: If you have a partner who is like a mirror image of you!?
in the opposite sex (or same sex, whatever), in personality and mannerisms, and thought, etc!. All your traits, that maybe you're uncomfortable with or embarrassed by, will be there for you to see in all their glory!.
Is this much likeness and understanding a bad thing!? Or does it force you to face yourself as you are!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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I haven’t met one such as I, to date, don’t know anyone who is like me, some have some traits, attributes, persona, in times gone by I had thought God hated me so he didn’t create another like me, I don’t resemble anyone in my family, my offspring have little or nothing in common, I am a sole entity!.

Meeting someone who is an exact mirror image, nay veritable replica of oneself is heavenly if you have only love and adoration for the mirror, hell if you don’t!. Those I meet who are similar I adore, I suppose this is the true test of one’s self esteem and standing, whether we could love one such as me, myself, I !.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Assuming I know they are me, I think it would drive me crazy!. I wouldn't be able to ask them for advice because they would just say whatever I would!. What if I'm totally undecided on something and need a second option!? They'll be undecided too!. They wouldn't be able to help me with fears because they would be scared too!. When I got mad at them, I would become mad at myself knowing I would have done the same!. Them always thinking the same way too would bug me, It would never make for a very interesting conversation, as they would always agree with me!. They would never be able to explain a different perspective to me that I'm having a hard time seeing because they would share my perspective!. I already know everything about them so why bother even talking!?
However, It would be nice to know someone who always will understand how you feel, and observing them could help you understand yourself better!. I think overall it could work out if you did not know they were you, they just would not be a positive influence or make you a better person!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It depends on how you look at it!.

It does force you to see who you are but you have the choice to hate your partner or hate yourself!. Some people would leave their partner while others just fix what's really wrong with themselves and are grateful that their partner was there to show them their true personality!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

it can make you clash!. you could hate these people, it happened to me, but then i found someone else like that and we absolutely love each other!.Www@QuestionHome@Com