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Question: Is everything in life a contradiction!?
whats fair to them isnt fair to me!.
whats fair to me should be fair to everyone

curiosity killed the cat!.
what you dont know may kill you

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pretty much!. one thing which is fair to one person somewhere most defienetly wouldn't be fair to another!. it is pretty much impossible to make everyone fair, and if everyone was fair, we would all be the same, and the world would no longer be interesting!.

so yes, everything in life is a contradiction, but its good!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Life is NOT a field of contradictions!. Our expectations of life are usually unrealistic and hence contradictory!.

If you want to receive the same breaks as everybody else, you had better have 49 bodies!. Room for those juggling skills, artificial limbs, fake boobs, spinal disorders, various diseases etc, etc!.!.!.

When someone else is a thief, isn't it a contradiction that I have to be NOT a thief!? Wouldn't the world be less contrary if we were all murderers and thieves!? Sometimes we have to hold up the moral code when almost nobody else does because there must be a moral code and a society!. If we hold our end up successfully, eventual those who took unfair advantage will be punished, but life is seldom so simple and there is no moment when the game is over like the end of a round of Monopoly!.

So we do what is right and often seem to get the short end of the stick!. Are you arbitrating to make sure the poor kids in your school get a hot breakfast or the slower students have tutors!? If you aren't spending a lot of time balancing the scales for those around you, who is doing this "equalizing" for you!? It doesn't just fall from the sky!.

So nobody is playing sheriff, and life (in the raw,) isn't fair!. But that isn't the end of the story!.

Your family, your friends, your teachers and yes your society are looking out for you, a little!. You probably have running water, frozen foods, sanitation products and clean underwear unlike much of the rest of the world!. You and I are at the very pinnacle of the "life is not fair" universe!. How lucky for us!

They say that if everyone you have ever known put their talents, valuables, failings, problems and experiences on the floor and you could pick any set you wanted, almost EVERYBODY would rather pick their own than anybody elses!. In this sense, the stuff I have to deal with is FAIR, because it is what I would RATHER be dealing with than anything else!.

As for the cat, he has a lot more predators after him than you or I do!.
Good Luck and keep looking for your share!. It's out there!.


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whats fair to them is also fair to me!.

there you have it!. not EVERYTHING in life is a contradiction!.


lol that may very well be true!. not everything in life is fair!. i grant you that!. how do u go from that to everything in life is a contradiction!? theres no contradiction in the fact that someone can get something, and someone else cant!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, if everything was fair, we'd loose the meaning of fairness
If everyone was always happy, we'd never feel happiness again because happiness is a contrast to sadness and vise versa

If the world was perfect, we'd get bored within hours,Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, it's a conundrum!. A conundrum wrapped in a dilemma fighting in a dark room with a paradox, and the paradox is wielding an enigma for a club!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Most of them are!. That is why God gave us brains and the opposite sex!.Www@QuestionHome@Com