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Question: Are we all really alone in this world!?
Does anyone care about anyone, I realized what a ***** my mother was last night, I know my father is a piece of **** as is my brother
Is it normal to hate your parents, is normal to not really care about your kids or be lousy parents
I wonder if everyone has it in them to not care about anything but themselves they just dont have the ability to show it or they are being phony
This world is a cruel place, most people hide behind a fake smile to get what they want, is it possible to live alone and be happy!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
so don't be those people, and you will find others that are like you and you will never have to live alone!. don't try to be one of themWww@QuestionHome@Com
All that exist is composed of the same 103 naturally occurring elements which have been created within the stars themselves !.
All are made of the stars!.
We are all star children!.
One chooses how that one sees the world, either subjectively or objectively!.
All choose whether they judge what is or whether they allow all that is to be that which it is!.
Judgments are subjective and inaccurate!.
Further, no one has the right to judge unless that one is fully enlightened and then that one would not choose to judge!.
Most often the faults we see in others merely reflect the faults that are within ourselves!.
May it be well for you!. May you choose to walk the path that will lead you to enlightenment and, thereby, end your suffering through understanding that might lead to mindful awareness demonstrated by generosity, loving kindness, caring and compassion for all, including ones self!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Don't relate the whole world to your own situation!. It depends on the person!. For example!.!.!.I'm a surgeon, so yes I would care very much for you if you were my patient and would comfort you into saving your life!. When you meet a girl, she'll care for you if you guys get into a relationship or get married!. Your friends should care about you!. This world can be a cruel place but also a wonderful one, depending on what perspective you choose to view it through!. I must say I have my moody days, but I never was, never will be and never connected to any fake people, fakeness is something that doesn't take you very far in life, eventually you will be revealed or let down!.!.!.or for that matter no one cares and your only lieing to yourself!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
Hell yea you can be alone and be happy!. Tough you can be with someone and be happier!. Understand that not all people are able to function with reason!. Babies cry, Basketball players shoot, Swimmers swim, Angry people get mad, Lonely people are alone, cruel people are cruel, Strong people overcome, wise people understand!.!.!.Don't be mad at the baby for crying!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
our happiest moments are by ourselves!. it is a personal thing!.!. are you happy being by yourself!? then, yes you can be alone and happy!.
are you parents really that bad!? honestly from the age of nine to 13 i spent those years thinking my parents were the enemy and i really didn't like them!. but now two years later i have just begun to realize how fortunate i am!. sometimes you just need to calm down and take things into perspective!.
it is normal for children to hate their parents in this society but i don't think it is a good thing!. please remember that even if your parents are horrid, they are still your parents!. you dont have to like them, but you are bound to love them!. and yes i do think that some people are unfit to be parents!.
"the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference" (wiesel)Www@QuestionHome@Com
you should look into buddhism!. i think it would be good for you!. it cant be a religion or a way of life or both!. meditating helps calm you, sort your mind, and possibly realize the solution to a difficult problem!. and you can do it completely alone
and yes, it is normal to have those feelings!. completely normal!. have you ever heard the song "teenagers" by my chemical romance!?
and there are some truly wonderful people out there, you just have to have good judgement and let them into your life!. you have to realize not everybodys perfect and they may hurt you at some point!. but even if they do, they may just be worth the pain!. and you may find it in your heart to forgive them because you know you cant live without themWww@QuestionHome@Com
I felt the same way a few days ago!. My friend also lives with the same s**t!. I didn't know really until I took a philosophy class!. We learned about Eastern Philosophy and it made me a calmer person!. I'm not telling you to follow a religion because it never worked for me!. Following someone/something that was never real to me made no sense!. I just found something to live for and something I could believe in!.
Sounds corny, but if you become selfish in the way you think, it could really help you out!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Unfortunately life was not meant to be easy!. It sucks and then you die!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
MY dinosaures are here but i huess that wont help huh!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
everyone in their being is alone!. our mind is only limited to us and we can't fully and completely express what we are thinking about or feeling!. I'm sure everyone has gone through an event like that!.
If you look deep enough, we all are very lonely!. We try to be connected with someone but no matter the amount of knowledge they know about you they still can't figure you out or really understand you completely!. It's all because of our being, or our soul!. We're all separated and we are all different and alone!. I would consider the world a cruel place too!.
Everyone starts off selfish!. If you just get mad at someone cutting you off on the street, your selfish!. If you think to yourself how wonderful and easy life would be with so much money, your selfish!. The moment you automatically think about everyone else first is the day you will be selfless!. Its an incredibly difficult thing to come by!. You must find the beauty within yourself first in order to find the beauty within others!. By beauty I mean the beauty of the being, not the external self!. I mean life, and freedom to think whatever we want, and the so much intelligence we have!. We are all magnificent beings!.
In order to love we need a relationship with another person!. We cannot love ourselves, as many would suppose!. We cannot be honest to ourselves or be just to ourselves!.!.!.its always been used incorrectly!. If you think about it, the worst kind of violence is the violence of silence, fully ignoring someone!. If you put a person in a white room with everything white and no windows they go crazy because you take away their freedom!. We all need people to be happy or to feel a fullness in ourselves and truly be satisfied!. You might not know it but we all desire another presence to stand by us!. Www@QuestionHome@Com