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Question: Is the hardest part of losing someone the fact that your world stops while everyone else's keeps going!?
Is the hardest part that the person's world stops and in turn a part of your world stops because they were a part of you!? Aside form the fact that that person is now gone from this world, is the most painful reality that nobody else seems to truly stop, reflect and appreciate the life that was lost!? Www@QuestionHome@Com


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It was something I noticed the day of my Mother's funeral!. I watched airplanes fly over head and people going about their daily business and I was struck by the fact that the world went on while mine stopped!. My first thought was, why aren't they stopping!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

It may feel that way, that no person felt the loss of (x) more than you!. Honestly, this is not a question with an answer!. You had to know that going into it!. This seems like grief, trying to let itself out in some constructive way!. Who did you lose!?

The most painful part of the death of a fellow human being for me is not very painful at all!. While I was in high school five friends crashed into a tree at over a hundred miles per hour, resulting in three of their deaths!. Since then I have seen two other people die before my eyes (violently) and a half dozen other recently deceased people (again from violent deaths, I was the first on the scene)!. All of my grandparents are dead!. But none of that compares to the death of a significant other (which I assume is the case, if not a child)!. It is a breakup that lasts forever, and only you know that pain!.

You are the only one who feels the particular pain you feel, and that can be alienating!. If you are trying to regain your footing after feeling beat down to your lowest point and you have been struggling for a while you may seek counseling, simply so that you would have a receptive person to speak to about what you are going through!.

But as I said, personally death doesn't really bother me all that much!. And it's not because of some belief in the afterlife (I'm an atheist)!. It is just unfortunate to break close bonds that we form with people, and more difficult for some!.
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It would ease the pain and not be so difficult if you realized that Life is a continuous journey whether in the body or out of it!. It is your consciousness that is eternal, not the body!.

Those we have lost are still living but now they are in a greater dimension, existing in an astral form at a higher rate of vibration, and life continues!. This is a situation that will change in the future when we have learned to develop our finer senses beyond the five attached to the physical world!. Those who have developed their intuition and perception are aware of departed ones!. One can communicate with them through the mind mainly!. Well, this leads into another subject!.

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No that's just the way life/people are/is!. The hardest part is knowing you'll never ever see them or hold them again as long as you live!.Www@QuestionHome@Com