Do u agree with this statement.. ?

Question: Do u agree with this statement!.!. !?

" struggle in life, helps u think more maturely, and when u come out of it, u r a better person "

Pls do share with us as to how any struggle/ problem in ur life helped u become a better person !?!?

thnx alot :)

keep smiling always and always!.!. its a miracle which is in ur control :)

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yeah i do believe that struggles make us better, more mature and experienced people, with hands-on experience in life, not just theory!. coz theory rarely holds credibility in a conversation!. here's my example:

when i was 15 my folks both got a job on an island an hour away from mine and so i was left to struggle with school, afterschool lessons and taking care of my brother (that included taking him to HIS lessons, helping him with his homework, cleaning after him, cooking for him and watching where he went what what he did - he's 3 years younger than me)!.

back then it was this huge deal for me coz i was just a kid and i had to cope with all my own teen troubles and pressure from school and exams and all that, PLUS the housekeeping, the bills, control of the money my folks sent us, so my bro wouldnt waste it all on trash!. now its easy for us, coz 3 years have passed and it doesnt seem so scary or as hard!.

i do believe that that experience, however hard at the time, helped me survive on my own and taught me what it takes to live alone!. now that i'm going off to college its not a problem being away from my parents!. i know how to cook and clean for myself and much more!. i aint scared to be alone in the house at night, like many girls my age still are!. i know how to control my budget so i dont get "bankrupt" in a week!.

it made me more mature than i believe i would have been if i were mommy's pampered girl from 15 until 18!. i became more responsible with curfew and stuff like that, which teenagers usually have trouble with!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I have had the usual problems and in the usual areas, and yes they have made me a better person!. I am more tolerant of other people's views, learned that I cannot change anyone but me, and that all thing will work much better when I relax and consider all of the solutions!. Considering solutions resolve struggles much better and faster then focusing on the struggle it's self!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think struggles and problems in life change you, but not necessarily for the better, so I guess I don't agree with the statement!. You get smarter, you learn about people in general, but for a lot of people, it causes them to lose faith in others and to be cynical, skeptical and distrustful!. I guess it all depends on what kind of struggles and problems you had!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I do agree, let's use your struggles with proper spelling for example!. According to your question we are discussing whether or not struggles in life help the letter u think more maturely and whether it will make the letters u and r a better person!.

So let me tell you this, I made u's life much better by surrounding it with the letters y and o therefore taking it from letter status, expressing the idea of the letter and sounds of u and gave it a new life as an idea expressing another human being! Holy cow that was good!. I'm going to add emakable peson to r and make a Remarkable Person and therefore empower it with the idea of a truly special human being!

So yes like your struggle with spelling, once overcome it will definitely make u into you and make you a REMARKABLE PERSON!

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dont agree with smiling being a miaracle though i do always smile, i believe, smile and the world smiles with you!. be positive and thew world seems positive!

struggling can make you maturer but can also make u bitter person, not always do u become a better person but it usually bring triumph and does make you betterWww@QuestionHome@Com

hi varsha,
theres nothing to agree abt it it is a FACT !.!.!.!.it may b difficult for one to accept it but it is true!.!.!.!.!.!.surely true!.!.i shall tell u in detail :

one wud suffer if he/she doesnt know the purticular thing in life!.!.!.!.!.and he can only come out of it only if he learns that purticular thing!.!.!.!.after coming out of the struggle!.!.!.!.!.he will surely b a better person than before!.!.!.!.!.isnt it!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
sufferings tell u how much god cares abt u ,,,,,how much he wud like to teach you!.!.!.!.how much better he wants to make you!.!.!.!.!.!.!

but suffering is not really easy to deal with!.!.!.! so i wud like to tell u

It isnt any trouble if you jes SMILE
it isnt any trouble if you jes SMILE
if there is any trouble it will vanish like a bubble
if there is only a trouble jes LAUGH
so when you are in trouble it will vanish like a bubble
if there is only a trouble jes LAUGH

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA Www@QuestionHome@Com

Always!. It's like struggling to buy something you love!. Once you get it, you don't treat it like trash, it's worthy to you!.

Just like happiness, if you strive for happiness why should you let anyone break it down easily!?
Once you go through a horrible experience you know what not to do to go through that again!.
And what sort of people you let in!.

You reason more and reasoningis what mature people do!.

It does make you stronger!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

that ios an easy one!.

if you struggled and you came out , you found a solution and know better how to handle the situation next time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You can say that again!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes I agree!. Resistance builds strength, Muscles as well as emotions!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Experience, even if it is bad, shapes us and forms us into the people that we are today!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I agree with the statement and i share in your struggles as well problems

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yes you are right
haan sahi kaha aap ne teacherWww@QuestionHome@Com