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Question: Have you ever made another person the center of your universe!?
Is that a good thing or a bad thing for you !?Do you love to much!?!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Yes I have, and I'm sure many other people have as well!.
However, there's a difference between loving someone too much and making that person the center of your universe!. You can love someone with all your heart, but be aware of everything/every one around you too!. If you make that person your top priority all the time, then that could cause conflict with not only yourself, but the people around you!.!.!.You can eventually become so caught up in that one person that you're always wanting to make him/her happy and pushing down your own wants/needs (as well as others around you!.) You risk distancing yourself from your friends/family!. So my answer is that at times it can be cute, harmless, and sweet!.!.!.but becoming too attached goes hang in hand with that, which could result in it becoming a bad thing!. You can never love too much, but you can obsess too much!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think we all get to that point when we are in love and feel like we need to give our all to that person!. I am not going to say this is a bad thing, it really depends on the situation!.

Like it is definitely bad to give your universe to someone who will take it, and use it to manipulate and control your life!. This rips you of your self confidence, and you feel like you have to bow down and kiss the persons feet, even when they treat you bad!.

However, I think it would be a better idea to make yourself the center of your universe!. I mean, who in the world has more meaning than you!? The more self love you have, and self confidence, the easier it will be for you to getting caught up in someone else's world who wants to control you, what you do, and how you feel about your life!.

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It can be good, or bad!. But love isn't a bad thing!. It can only be bad if that person doesn't feel the same way about you!. I've made someone the center of my universe before and I cared about them more than myself!. And I love that person the same way today!. Love is a wonderful thing!. Live in the moment and don't make something that's good be a bad thing! Good luck!Www@QuestionHome@Com

To love someone more than oneself would be imbalanced and the opposite of self centered!. We can't give to much but we can't give more than we have, or we'll end up empty or broken!. Equality is as important to the giver as it is to the receiver!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Oh, yes, I've done that!. It turned out disastrously!. I tried to make someone my sun, my moon, and my stars!. What I learned is that it's so unfair to put another person in that position!. You're expecting them to be your God, and that's too much to ask of anyone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes I did!.!.!.!.!.but realized that loving someone too much can cause distraction from your priorities in life!.!.!.!.!.so yes, there IS such a thing as loving too much!.!.!.

I believe there should be a balance in everything we do in life!.!.!.!.eat, sleep, love!.!.!.as long as its balanced!.!.!.you won't regret!.!.!.ever!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I have done that before!.
And it was not a good idea!. Because he crushed my heart to pieces, so therefore, my world went down in flames too!.!.!.
And I personally don't think that it's possible to love too much :)
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I made my children the center of my universe!.

And now, they are attempting to make others the center of theirs!.

I think that's how it should be!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I am!.

Good or bad!? It depends on why you do it!. Sometimes it is what is necessary!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Someone has with me, and it is a very bad thing!. You end up pushing each other away because they don't give you enough space!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. - Major tactical blunder!
That's not love, it's dependency!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

My mother was!. But I got over her!.

Loving too much is never a problem, but idolatry or making another person your god is!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I have my Husband of Fifty Years, and I still am at his beck and Call!. Love him a lot!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!. When i get married to someone i love (who loves me the same way, back) I'd make them the center of my universe!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I did!.
But
Now I grew up!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It was a good thing till he passed away!. I'm not sure I will ever stop missing him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

/I do my best friend and wife of 42 years!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes I have, and it was a good thing!. One can never love too much!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

people come and go i cant make sb my center Www@QuestionHome@Com