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good morning brother
great question

1 you are right,hatread and love dwell under the same roof,they are same aspects of two coin,head and tail,love and hate,if there is love there is hate!.
2 if there will be no foolish humans in the society what will be the value of intelligent humans there will be no difference
3 if there will be no ugly things in this world,what will be the value of beauty will left!.
4 if there will be no hatred what value of love will left,there will be no difference,so love and hate are two aspects of same coin,if there will be love there will be hate,they dwell in same roof"

1 attachment is the biggest cause of pain
sri krishna
so we should never love some one in excess that can be harmful for us,you got love and if tomorrow by chance the person betrayed you,you will get hurt,so never love someone in excess!.

2 hatred is also cause of pain
if you will hate someone very much than also you will arose negative feelings towards other persons,so never hate someone also in excess!.

so buddha had said neither love nor hate,be equal,we will call this in hindi rag or dhaus( love and hatred) so both results in suffring,so we should neither love nor hate anyone to much!.

but that is not possible psycology by a common person,that we should neither hate anyone nor love anyone!.
so we should love everyone but should not get very much emotionally,that can hurt us,i love one girl and she betrayed me!.

4 every human being love himself only
one day king ashoka and his wife were doing meditation
ashoka ; whom you love the most in this world!?
wife: i had done meditation and i had find out that i love myself
ashoka; me too
for example parents love there kids,they see dreams of there ,they will become doctor,etc and will take them in big house,so desires are attach and if tomorrow,the kid will insult the parents,there desire will not get fullfill,they will got hurt,so they love the desire that are attach with the kids not the kids,a mother not love the son but the desires that are attach with the son!.

" love yourself as much as anybody you can love in the entire Universe"
Buddha

hope i answer the question brother to the best of my abilities

god bless you and will give you power,beauty,long life and knowledge
all the best for the future brother
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Possibilities are 100%!. Sometimes exceptions happen----well, when hatred becomes stronger, love flies away through the windows!. If love becomes stronger, then---- you know! Funny thing is this: out of that 100%, hatred is only 30%, whereas love is 70%!. Yet, that 30% of hatred becomes similar to 70% love! That's the nasty negative power of hatred! Moreover love has an extra quality of 'forgiving'----that's why, hatred get the chance of becoming stronger sometimes within its 30% boundary! The pessimists count that strength of hatred as 70%, so love to them becomes faded as 30% or lower! Only the optimists count 70% as 100% & believe that the rest 30% is occupied temporarily!.
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Hatred destroys love!. The two cannot cohabit under one roof!. One with a Spirit infused with love cannot thereby be roused to hate, and hateful individuals touched by love cannot with any ardency hate!.
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Hatred is the nearest thing to Love!.
You might have to think about this to fully understand why,but it's very True!.
So Yes the two go together very well!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I believe it can and it's also called ambivalence,Psychologically it happens to some persons who are manic depressive or BorderlineWww@QuestionHome@Com

they are twins dear AA!.
don't you love yourself sometimes and other times you hate it!?!!

BOTH HURT!.

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I am perhaps more critical of my loved ones!. I guess I expect more from them, and I may tend to "dislike" their actions!. Hate is too strong of a word!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

In most cases Love is just a modified hatred!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

hatred and love are just like right and left arms!.
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We face a love and hate the other!. What is best fed by us prevail!.

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