Is it possible for you to make other people happy while you are not?

Question: Is it possible for you to make other people happy while you are not!?

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I have more or less been doing exactly that for many years!. With one difference, I did not realized exactly how unhappy I really was!. Even in the throws of near emotional collapse, I was able to gather enough mirth and wisdom to help others whom I saw as being far worse off than myself!. Being able to help others, even if all I could do was muster a faint joke was enough to help see myself and perhaps the other through our troubles!. I know that this seems to be self serving if not hypocritical, and it is!.

However,

We all have within us a presence, a touch of the divine that refuses to allow us to simply quit!. We hold out for that one last hope that will lead us towards the light!. And sometimes a smile, even if it is merely perceived, can be more than you could have hoped for!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Definitely; sometimes its out of selflessness, sometimes its out of low-self esteem!.!.!.

You can also look at it from another perspective; if you can make other people happy while you are not!.!.!.!.then those people must not be very close to you if they either don't notice that you are down or know but don't really care enough to help you in return!.!.

If you were down and trying to shear up a caring person (someone worth helping out) then they couldn't be happy as long as you're not!.!.!.

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Yes!. I have seen many people, who have sacrificed everything for the sake of keeping their kith and kin happy!.

Such people tolerate everything!. They swallow many unpleasant situations and they do not reveal even to their close relatives or friends!.

They derive full happiness and pleasure out of it!.
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I have found in life the most desolate souls have the widest smiles and distribute the greatest amount of philosophical joy and peace in the world!.

What cause or purpose would a happy man, content amidst his brethren, living life joyfully and in love with his family have with the woes or cares of the world !.!.!.!.

They know the innermost feeling lying deep within the hearts of such souls, life tends towards bleeding the noblest souls profusely to feed the insatiable needs of the abundantly ruthless !.!.!.!.

It is indeeed highly possible!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I do it all the time!. in fact, my son's teacher who I met formally two days ago remembers me as the person who always is sweet to her when she goes to the store I work at!. There is one example of a person who I make happy, even if on those days, what if I'd been unhappy!. But I still projected happiness onto others!. (Hope I said that right!. ;D)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I make people happy who've ordered books from me and I put them in the mail pronto, but it's a chore to prepare all those items continuously day by day!. Am a seller and it's a chosen hobby!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes you can be strong for others and help them with their problems and give them sound advice when they ask but when it comes to your own life you are lost suffering from little small deaths of identity crisis, purpose etc!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

of course how do you think some people get along with their life!?

they forget about what is annoying them keeping in mind nothing bad good lasts forever and they become happy and give this happiness to othersWww@QuestionHome@Com

sometimes the best way to help yourself is to help others, which would make them happy and can also help you in many ways!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

if you ask me helping others is one of the best ways to become happy yourself!. Altruism is a cure for depression! Www@QuestionHome@Com

Absolutely,

Have you ever looked at the entertainment industry!?!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, crawl up in a ball and ask them to kick you as hard as they can repeatedly!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Ask any real clown and they'll tell you!.!.!.

Personally!.!.!.I can brighten a lot of days and still feel cloudy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes it is possible!. Those type of people loves attention!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I like to see my wife happy so I try to keep her that way even when I'm down!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. I'd really rather not have to elaborate what makes me unhappy, but yes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

no its not possible to me!. i can make them happy only wen i m in gud mood!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes I have a thousand masks,you won't know the difference!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Maybe, but I am sure my energy may be a bit negative!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!. !.!. no one can give what has not!. I work with her !.!.!. and then find out if will give happiness!.
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