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Question: In a relationship what's more important: Substance or Chemistry!?

Substance - having good quality's
Chemistry - mutual understanding
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I think the first question to ask and answer is what kind of relationship are you looking for!.

Most people enter into a relationship based on someone's appearance, and what kind of attraction they have to the person!. This usually leads to a physical, non-substantial relationship!. One of the parties involved will have a deep desire to be fed on an intellectual or emotional level, and this type of relationship will not give them what they need!.

When people do have a relationship that is built on substance, there is more quality because one or both parties involved sought out to find the quality on the inside versus anything physical on the outside!. Relationships that are filled with substance have a higher chance of success because they seek true love, and understanding the essence and the soul inside!.

So, I think chemistry is important for people who are looking for a physical relationship, and I think substance is important to those who seek a quality, long lasting relationship!.

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Substance is what you notice first, that is what attracts two people and helps form a bond!. However long term relationships can never persist without deep understanding!. What good is substance if you're completely out of tune!

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Chemistry!.


Hmm!.!.!. this is a tough one! Substance is extremely important, but if you haven't got chemistry, all else is pretty insignificant!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Chemistry - if you have it you will have Substance
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I would say substance!. Chemistry anybody can have that but having it in good quality is hard to find!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

substance is a material with a definite chemical !.!.!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

surely, chemistry !.!. what do I do with good quality's without understanding!Www@QuestionHome@Com

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