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Question: This is a marriage question!.!?
You love my husband!.But you keep having these bad thoughts about him!.In your mind,you keep having thoughts about killing him and death wishes!.You don't even want these thoughts or wishes!.You ask for forgiveness for them because you don't want them to come true!.You don't want my husband to die and you don't want to kill him!.He's the greatest guy on earth!.The wishes are just thoughts and so are the other bad thoughts!.You don't want anything to happen to him!.You love him so much!.You would give up my life for him!.You don't know what to do now that you thought these thoughts and wishes and you don't want them to come true!.You try to block out the thoughts as soon as they come into my mind!.Even the wishes!.You're not mad at him but you have only had the thought about once!.You don't want the thought!.You definitely do not intend to act on these thoughts!.You can't imagine yourself without your husband!.There's something that tells you that you want to do it but you're ignoring that voice,you can't and won't do anything to him!.You feel like the worse wife ever!.You know that you don't want to hurt him!.You love him!.You have to tell him what is on you mind!.But if you do,he'll be frightened to be around you anymore and you don't want that to happen!.You don't meditate on it!.You only think about it once in a while!.You're not going to hurt him but you feel like you am about to ruin everything!
Does this make you a bad wife or crazy!?
Do you think that if you told him this,that he would divorce you!?
Do you think that he would be scared to be around you!?
Do you think that he will lose trust in you now!?
Is this how you know that you don't want to kill your husband-weird question!.
You love your husband!.
You don't want to hurt him!.
You hate having the thoughts!.
You can't imagine your life without your husband!.
You want to be with your husband forever and you do not want to lose him!.
You love him and you don't want anything to happen to him!.
The thoughts just pop in your mind at random times!.
There's something that tells you that you want to do it but you're truly trying ignoring that voice,you can't and won't do anything to him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
i think this may have affected you way too much and that's your only problem!. i think maybe it is reoccurring because it affected you so much!. it is on your mind to worry about having those thoughts so you have them, and then you're like, oh no i'm having those thoughts again!. it worries you more and so on!.
that's what it looks like to me anyways!.
i think everybody has weird random thoughts like this sometimes!. like sometimes i'll be driving on a two lane highway, and i just imagine jerking the wheel into oncoming traffic and the chaos that would occur, i wouldn't ever do it, logically i don't desire the action, but sometimes the thought just occurs to me, and then i think of how funny it is the power of two yellow lines, that we feel safe hurdling towards each other at 100km/hr just because the road is divided!.
you know!? i don't have a death wish but the idea just pops into my head sometimes!. other stuff like that happens to me too, i think it's totally normal!. i think that if you truly accept it and dismiss it, think of it as totally normal, i think it will happen to you less often, but you would need to believe it is nothing, not just try and convince yourself!.
as for telling your husband about it, i think it depends on what kind of person your husband is!. i think judging by your reaction, if you were my wife, and i thought it about you, i wouldn't mention it!. because it would freak you out!. but maybe your husband is the type that can dismiss it easily, maybe laugh it off with you, and help you feel better about it, or maybe comfort you and do the same!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
its normal we r different we r in different bodiesWww@QuestionHome@Com
You love your husband; you are experiencing some disturbing emotions!.
Hence, you'd be helping your relationship and yourself by calling a toll-free, licensed counseling service: 1-800-525-LOVE, http://www!.klove!.com 24/7!. The next time you have the thought, call the 800 number, and share your feelings!.
The recurring negative thought can be helped, healed, and the energy being used in the process, when healed and freed, will be more refreshing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com