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Question: Sex and the Biased society!?
Is society biased when it comes to love and sex!? Why is it ok for men and women to have sex outside of marriage, or date multiple partners and have sexual relationships with them (although they may not love one another), yet, it is not socially acceptable for a woman to date ONE man for a few years and get paid for having “relations” with him!? Why is it okay for men to have mistresses (in certain societies), but a woman who has one male partner whom pays her for sex, is considered a whore and slut!? Men pay for sex whether they know it or not, every time they take a cute girl to a fancy dinner, and buy her presents, hoping to get into her pants, is paying for sex!. Should all women who accept the fancy dinners and presents that the men offer (in order to have sex with them) be considered sluts!? Should all women who have pre-marital sex be considered whores!?

Tell me the difference between the two:

1!. Guy meets girl, guy wants to get into girls pants, guy is a loser and knows that he is one, guy takes girl to a nice dinner and buys her drinks hoping that he will get lucky!. girl has too much to drink and goes home with guy, wakes up the next day and feels terrible!.

2!. Rich guy wants cute girl, cute girl is well educated and does not a want relationship, rich guy is honest about intentions and does not lie to girl, guy offers girl $3,000 for one night of sex!. guy is also well educated and disease free!. girl accepts proposal!. girl wakes up and feels bad about actions, but at least girl has 3 grand in pocket!.

If girl was to be labeled a whore either way, which should the girl choose!? And is society harder on women when it comes to sex!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
In this mixed up plural society of ours, whatever you say about a woman can be said for the men and for the homosexuals!. Every possible combination for sex between the sexes and each other exists!. Each society on this planet views sexual relations differently!. So much so that I say to each his own as long as I'm not included!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

A woman dating "one man for a few years and getting paid" is called a wife -- a much too socially accepted form of prostitution!.

A woman who has one male partner who pays is a wife, not a slut!.

Option 1 is probably an alcoholic woman!. Alcoholic women are labeled sluts because of the bias against women DRINKING, not against women having sex!.
Option 2 is an opportunistic woman!. Usually the guys who offer $3,000 are diseased, old and come from money so the education is irrelevant!. Even pet monkey's go to college in rich families!. They pay money so they don't get bad grades!.

Is it better for a woman to be an opportunist than a drunk!? Frankly it seldom is because opportunities ALWAYS have a down side!.

Option 3 is what Billie Holiday said, "God Bless the Child that's got his own," or "her" own in this case!.

Why is a woman making her own way and sleeping with NOBODY not an option!? Is the only way you know to make money by barter!? Why not get a JOB!? When you save your money and get rich, then YOU can buy a man's favors (and believe me, men are a comparatively cheap date, even when you are a woman who is old, ugly and diseased!.)

Why does a woman sell for $3,000 and a man for $50 bucks!? It's a tough world if you don't want to EARN your own way!. Don't blame it on sexism!.
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