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Question: What has hurt you the most in your life
say your age and what hurt you the most
for me:
13 year old life:
my mom had an affair
my older sister died
parents split
mom became alcoholic
(she is bipolar with other mental issues)
family lost alot of money & i got teased
being the youngest of 5 kids they barely remembered my name
mom's boyfriend went to jail for dealing drugs
dad moved and got remarried
the way people looked at me and thought i'd definatly turn out messed up!. but i'm not!.
my transexual godfather drank rubbing alcohol and had to go to the hospital
now hes in rehab
ok thats everything that i can think of, now you go no lyingWww@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Okay, since it seems most of your responses have come from other young people, here's one from a 57 year old!. :-)
My own anger and stubbornness, that seems to have hurt me more than anything!. As I look back on my life I can now see how those things that physically hurt me at one time, no longer are a problem because they healed!. Except, that I stubbornly hold on to those emotional pains, and that which caused them, instead of letting them go!. The things that have only hurt me emotionally, likewise, I tend to hold on to even longer and deeper than the physical ones!. The things people have done to me, the things I've done wrong, all the bad things that happen in life, I keep them alive in my heart instead of letting them go!. That's what has hurt me most of all!. You see, it's not the bad things that happen in life that will ruin your life!. We all have turmoil in our lives!. It's how we deal with that turmoil that sets us apart!. Never let your own fears and anger dictate how you live your life!. Don't do as I've done!. Look past your problems and live like they never happened to you!. Tomorrow's a new day, rejoice in it!. Then, when your 57 years old, you can look back on your life and know, you did it right!. Find those things in life that make you happy and do them!. When they no longer make you happy, quit them!.
I wish you all the best Sweetie,
TerriLeeWww@QuestionHome@Com
Being married to a violent alcoholic!. Seeing him be verbally abusive to my children!. Having no place to turn to get us out of that mess!.
Life DOES get better when you're old enough to have the choice to live your life according to your own choices!. My life is very good today, but not without years of 12-step work!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
i'm also 13
and being anxious and worried has hurt me the most in my life!.
i'm pretty shy because i worry all the time and i know if i didn't i'd have more friends and more things going on in my life!.
i've had a pretty good life, though, and i am thankful for it!.
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People! Family is the worst!.
But look on the bright side, it could always be worse!
At least you are here to talk about it!
And you always have that Guy in the sky! He is there whenever you need a real friend!
I could tell you my story!. It makes yours look pretty good from here!.
But hey, I'm all over that, because I've got that friend in the sky! :DWww@QuestionHome@Com
where do i begin!.
life, people, situations hasn't been the greatest but i am surviving and moving on!. it feels like i am jinxed, pure bad luck or something
I hope things get better for you!. and hope you have a wonderful future ahead of you!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
19 years old
seeing my mom working so hard to support us
seeing my mom be depressed
seeing my grandparents divorcing
seeing my family torn apart
seeing my grama die of cancer
having no trust in my boyfriend
me being depressed
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13 yrs old
mom died when i was 10
got my first period the day after
dog died
annoying neighbor moved in
sheesh, writing here is intimidating if your life doesn't suck!. good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
wow u sure have a tough life!.
ive tried to take my life twice!. im 17 Www@QuestionHome@Com
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losing the one I loved the most because I was an alcoholic who became verbally (never physically) abusive!. So she threatened many times to leave but I never listened because she never made good on her threat!. Then one day she was just gone and there was a note saying that she wasn't going to stick around and watch me destroy myself!.
After I sobered up I tried to get her back but she married somebody else and I was too late!. She's been married for 3 years now but I still miss her very much and I still love her too!.!.!. But she's happy and since I do love her, that's more important to me than anything!. Maybe someday!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com