Who was the more power in the relationship - you decide

Question: Who was the more power in the relationship - you decide

"The person who cares the least, controls the relationship"
Its a famous quote on relationships!. Basically if i ask a woman out, does this mean i am giving all the power to her and i no longer control things!. I think we both like each other 50-50 but if i ask her out, does this mean long term she is on the advantage over me!.
Not really looking to control her, just want the stability of knowing she wont leave me!.
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

Women have all the power, but they really want a man who can discover how to take the power back--rationally; not with force or coercion, but by seducing her!. You have to discover what it is that will seduce her!.
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Welcome to the stone age! Man has not evolved enough to know that there should not be a controling factor in a relationship!. It should be equal!. As you say 50/50!. It's not a relationship if one is the controler!. And if that is the way it is then you should turn and walk away!. also in the relationship there is no stability!. That would mean that it would have to be perfect which as I know has never happen!. Share in each others triumphs and each others troubles!. That is a relationship!. Unfortunatly there is no guarantee's with a relationship!. Only learning!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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