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How do you feel about living with no regrets!? Is it better to know something than to always wonder what if!? You may take a chance of getting hurt, but at least you know in the end!. Putting yourself out there is scary, but at least you know that you tried!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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If you live a life with no regrets, then you have lived no life at all!. To try, to seek and to learn is the goal of all warmhearted men!. The struggle is what makes you who you are!. It is the failures that gives life its limits!. To have lived life with no regrets is fail at living life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Common sense is important in life, not only the scientific knowledge!.

Don't take drugs and say I'd try to confirm what it is !.!.!. you already know it from what is called common sense!.

Living with no regrets as long as your living is based on your consciousness and kindness!. No one should take responsibility that they could not!. No one can judge your conscious better in this world for you!. But, be true and be kind to yourself ! No one can do the job better than yourself too!.

Enjoy life peacefully with consciousness and kindness!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well recently I put myself totally out there for a guy and the outcome was absolutely horrible and I made a fool of myself!. But even so I got an incredible sense of satisfaction and pride in myself that's irreplacable!. I followed through even though it terrified me!. That made the humiliation worth it!. But it is very tiring (atleast for me) to always be jumping into the abyss of the unknown!. I think you can try your hardest, and say you live with "no regrets" but to most it is unattainable to most, if not all!. We learn from regret as we do from mistakes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Define "putting yourself" out there!.

Where I come from that does not have any positive energy, but maybe that's just me!. Putting yourself out there sounds like an encouraging battle that I would have to pass!.

I don't plot my next mistake, but I would rather not regret the beds I make!.

Scary is putting yourself out there and risking Aids, definitely an unconsidered risk you can't regret taking!.

The endWww@QuestionHome@Com

Hi heat1234,
Living life with no regrets is not the same thing as not taking chances!. The phrase, "Living life with no regrets" usually means the opposite!. It means live "all out", and "take chances"!.
We're all unique with different personalities!. Striking some kind of balance usually works!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That is the only way you can ever feel whole about yourself!. The one's who struggle the most are those who never take any action and spend the rest of their lives never fully knowing what could have happened!. It's a more fulfilling life to get hurt and grow than to hide from life and let it pass you by!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Regrets, mean you have made mistakes, everyone has to make mistakes, that's how we learn, we have to try something before we know if it's right or wrong, if it's wrong we try not to do it again, and have to live to regret it, we don't like regrets!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that a few regrets in life is good for someone, but to live in regrets, and let them ruin your life, is stupid!.
i have few regrets, and the ones i do have, i make the most of, dont let them hinder me, and 'march on'!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i live with no regrets!. i do something stupid laugh it off, and never think of it again [[unless it was with friends]] living with no regrets makes life easier for some, but it gets you into troubleWww@QuestionHome@Com

In opposition, you can also do things that you regret!. So, you can live with regrets about the things you have and haven't done!. Your point!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Great way to live life! no regrets!!!
never wonder what if just live for the moment you have and what is happening now!
if you wonder about what if's then your missing your present time!Www@QuestionHome@Com

When I was younger, I made the 'best decisions' I could, but sometimes they turned out to be wrong in the long run !.!.!. there was nothing I could do to change that, so I went on to the next decision!. When I was 46, the results of one of the bad decisions left me alone and homeless!. I actually found much to enjoy about being homeless, but ten months later (I stayed with friends or relatives for five of those months) I got into a 'tenant managed building for the formerly homeless' and felt very PROUD because it was truly the first place I'd ever gotten with no 'help' from having children or from other people!. About three weeks later, as the FIRST tenant in this new old 'apartment hotel' I had to lead an orientation for 'prospective new tenants!.' I didn't know it, but a man who came to that orientation quickly became my best friend !.!.!.we both loved to talk about EVERYTHING from weather to politics and religion, but we did not like to talk about the other people and who they were doing what to and with!. We did our errands together, we went to the art museum together !.!.!. and after that day long excursion to the art museum (he cooked me dinner at his apartment afterwards) I was told that he had a 'gorgeous new girlfriend' and that he'd taken her to his apartment and she had never come out again!. Inside, I laughed !.!.!. I had dressed up for the art museum, and when I left his apartment to go to mine, there was no one to see me go from his floor to mine!. I even asked him where he kept this 'gorgeous new girlfriend' !.!.!. he said he kept her in his (very tiny) closet, under the pile of newspapers he was saving for me (I wanted to do some papier mache)!. Not long after that, I had a 'family crisis' and wanted to 'cry on his shoulder' which to me meant have a long talk!. To him it was literal and I was suddenly in his arms with my head on his chest and NOTHING ever felt so GOOD!. I RAN from his apartment that night, but two days later we had a long talk (ten hours!) and came from it with the agreement to 'explore the romantic path together, slowly!.' Again, there were 'problems' because he didn't hear the word slowly!. Less than two weeks later, we both knew that we would be getting married!. We have now been married for 11+ years !.!.!. and I know that we are together 'forever and beyond!.' I am extremely happy, and so is he!. We are still best friends, as well as partners, lovers, and playmates!. I can now look back on the life I had before I met him and know that I would change NOTHING !.!.!. because a different decision ANYWHERE ALONG THE WAY OF MY LIFE and I wouldn't have met him!. He's the same way !.!.!. we did have a few regrets (we both STILL hate to make even the smallest decisions, which is rather funny in the way it works out), but we no longer have them!. Yes, you are correct !.!.!. Putting yourself 'out there' is SCARY !.!.!. but not only do I know that I tried !.!.!. I now know that God sent me the BEST REWARD possible for that 'trying' I had done!.Www@QuestionHome@Com