Love and death these two realities & what we make of them will dictate the kind

Question: Love and death these two realities & what we make of them will dictate the kind of life we lead!?

and the kind of death we experience do you agree or disagree!?!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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The only thing that comes to mind here, is that when you're constantly aware that you could lose someone you love any minute, or you realize they will one day leave to die, it makes you never take them for granted, and you can love them the way love was intended!. It's hard to be in this state of mind, but that is how you keep love alive, that's the secret!.
The kind of death we experience!? I think that if your full of love, and feel completed, you can fall into death peacefully, I think you even feel like!.!.well, I did what I came here for, to love,now It's OK if I die, I mean if your older, and lived a life, and your children are over 18, it's a deep and I avoid talking about it like the plague but it's true
(hugs) xo Kissy, your questions always fall in line with things I am debating in my mind!.!.it's strange, your inspiring to meWww@QuestionHome@Com

Agree and very much so!. We can embrace love, in all it's many forms, and live a life
reciprocally, or turn our backs on it and trudge on alone!. We
can accept that death is waiting out there somewhere, and
get busy doing all the wonderful things that life offers in the
interim, or walk in fear of it thereby crippling our time here
on Earth!. It's these choices we have to make, almost on a
daily basis, in order to grow (or not) as human beings so
that when we get to the end of our lives, we can look back
and nod our heads and say, "this was a life well lived"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I know perfectly well that death can be a random occurrence, yet I view it fatalistically, as something that is predetermined by my fate!.
But the manner of dying is something else entirely!. If you lose your job, spouse, children and house because of drinking, and wind up puking out your guts in a gutter until you croak - this is not a life well lived or serving any real purpose, other than that of self destruction!.
also, at death, I believe, like the Ancient Egyptians, that your "soul" is weighed against your deeds!. Another way to look at this is to say that at death we see ourselves as we really were - all our defenses and rationalizations are gone, we can only see the truth!. You can imagine what kind of shock this might produce!.
To avoid this reckoning, it is a good idea to make love a major force in your life, and by that I mean in all its aspects!. If our guiding star in life is love, we make ourselves vulnerable, but at least we are on the moral high ground and we will find our way back to healing through the love of others!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Disagree!.

Few of us have enough control over day to day events to even hope to have much control over how we conduct our lives!. All we can hope for is to have a personal philosophy and high standard by which to respond to new events!.

In my view, damn few individuals even bother to have such a conscious standard!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

God made we human beings in such a way that we usually forget the realty of death and very much remember the reality of love apparently and follow the wishes of our mind and heart!. The the kind of death !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. No one bothers!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. as we humans are busy with achieving the goals set to !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. This is the realities of our lives!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah, I agree!.

Of course!. Death isn't always limited to when our physical bodies die!. And love isn't just marriage!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

of course!. Those realities are the central themes (explicit or implied) of any religion or philosophical system!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

lighten up!. !. !. its only life!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Dying to the past is love and it dictates the kind of life we live!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

disagree

nothing dictates the kind of life I should live!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

to much problem in your!.!.!.don't 4get to breveWww@QuestionHome@Com