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Question: What Kind of Mother is This!?
My friend's mother always wanted the best for her daughter for her to marry a good guy that is rich!. Nothing wrong with that!.

For me: The above mother who knew a guy very well tried to set me up with a guy that lived with his male lover 12 years, drank, gambled, and treated women like dirt!. She knew all about him!.

Is this mother 2 faced or what!?!?!? Your thoughts!.

Is it wishing well on her own children but the worst for me!.
And she is my godmother!. In my mind WAS my godmotherWww@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
say the guy is too good for you, tell the mother to recommend to her daughter!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You haven't mentioned if you have anything in common with this guy, maybe this caring mother can see a connection between you two that is not apparent but under the surface is the ultimate connection!. Your making this guy out to seem bad, but he is probably, like every other guy, going through a rough stage and needs someone firm to help him cope with the stage he is going through and this lady thinks you are the best person who can help this guy blossom!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that is really ignorant that she set her up with someone really good and not you!.!.i mean i kida agree with what the first person said about maybe she thought you could change him i dont know!.!.but i think that was cold of her i mean why would she want something liek that for you!.!.!.maybe you dont even want to deal with someone like that!.!.!.did he say somehting to her about liking you or somehting!.!.!.!.cause i could see that maybe but if he dint know you or anything!.!.iono!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

r u for SURE she knew about his problems !? she might not!. or maybe she thought u could change him!.!. i understand y ur upset and u could go one of 2 ways,
A!.) Ignore her and lose ur godmother of _ years!.
B!.) give her another chance and maybe find out y she did it b4 cutting her off!.
you might not want 2 burn ur bridges b4 getting her half of the story!. then u can decide what 2 make of the situation!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

More or less confused, and may have been suffering from mental disorder not really knowing her actions!. So look at the best of her not the worst!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

She's a typical mother!. Saving the best for her children!.Www@QuestionHome@Com