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Question: Have I perfected the art of being a jerk!?
I am emotionaly uncarring about a loved one's recent illness!.

I criticize our culture's liberal values/sexual promiscuity yet engage in premarital sex!.

I despise people who ask me for help but I think there is justification since I almost never ask for help!. I get angry at co-workers who call me to work for them!. I chew them out and say that I would never call them to work for me EVEN if I was sick or lost in a ditch!.

Let me summerize that last paragraph: I hate to give because I rarely take so I feel like I don't owe anyone anything!.

However, if I was in great reliance on someone else, I would likely treat them with respect if they needed a favor!.

I also drive like a menace!. I also view people with different political viewpoints as enemies I should fight in war!. I denounce many people as unpatriotic or unAmerican!.

What's my deal!? I'm only 19Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
not yet dude!.!.!.!.!.the world is harsh to you huh!.!.!.!.before you became one!.!.!.!.before you as of today!.!.!.!.your childhood must have been bitter!.!.!.!.!.!.for what you are today!.!.is a mirror of how you tried to cope with the world you are living for!.!.!.!.hey for crying out loud!.!.!.!.i can hear you whisper at night!.!.!.!.i can hear your voice shouting in the dark!.!.!.!.jerk or not jerk i still believe something in you is still good!.!.!.!.!.so pray honey!.!.!.!.always remember that life is good!.!.!.if we always do our best!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Wow, you're a bastard!.
I'd say you hit the nail on the head with being a "jerk" (I assume you're American)
If you don't mind being that way, don't change it; if you feel comfortable with being that way, don't care what others think!. Luckily, I like to think I'm a caring person and it makes me feel good but being a "jerk" is kind of a good thing in some ways!. For example, I'd like to be a little more insensitive; I hate being the nice guy all the time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well in a way it sounds like you have and that isn't something to be proud of!. I say you need to seek help if you want to change the way you are!. Other wise it just sounds like you like to be left alone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You've spent too much time this side of your eyes (the gooey, squidgy, grey bit), and not enough time the other side (the harsh, bright, unpredictable bit)!.

But you're a jerk, so stop caring what others think!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Feh!. Amateur!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You sound like the guy version of me!. I think society has only fed into our cynical ideals even more!. Plus we are just honest with ourselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

im the same and i am only 13!.
i think of myself as an individual person rather than a jerk though!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You are just a piker!.

I'm not impressed!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

the fact that your writing about this shows that you know your behaviour is wrong!. So why not change!?Www@QuestionHome@Com