Do you give people second chances to prove their normality...?

Question: Do you give people second chances to prove their normality!.!.!.!?

although you know you probably won't get anything in return!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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!.!.!.the part about getting a "return" is not in the cards for I would not be looking for something to gain by it!.!.!.I am a firm believer in having second or third or more chances but I am not the "chance giver" for "chances" are the property of the person making the change and are not for me to judge!.!.!.I believe that's something I have no control over!.!.!.the person may try and fail numerous times and this would not sway me against them!.!.!.I would still be around as long as they were not injuring me or mine for someone must still be there when they do finally succeed to share in the joy of success!.!.!.that would be all that I need!.!.!.for them to be able to live again!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you are around people long enough they tend to show you who they really are!. I try really hard not to base my opinion of someone at least until I have been around them 5 or 6 times in different settings of course!. 1 of my biggest faults is I tend to be who I really am at any setting this often brings much judgment upon me!. With people 2nd chances are based upon their observation of the person or situation!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Normality!? Who wants to prove normality (though I must admit, it's better than the previously suggested proof of nobility)!?
Yes, I give people second chances -anyone can make a mistake!. However, they should learn from mistakes -I've learned not to give too many chances!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I give people second chances to prove their willingness to be a better person!. It is an act of forgiveness that I would want to be given by others in return!. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves a chance to learn from them, imho!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i do because i never got that second chance, i was just written off as a 'psycho', 'wierd', and 'depressed and angry all the time', just because that was how i acted months ago, and not even all the time then!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, and a third and a fourth, but more to enable them to find their own normality than to prove externally, as they only need to prove it to themselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

'Normal' is relative!.!.!. :) Either way, I tend to give people lots of chances, far more than they deserve!. I always see the best in them first, even if it's small!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I may give someone a second chance to prove their normality!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

ya!. but a lot of the time seconds chances are worthless because people rarely change!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only when I care about them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i always do!. that is called compassion for othersWww@QuestionHome@Com

what is normal !?Www@QuestionHome@Com