Do all cheaters almost always find somebody better?

Question: Do all cheaters almost always find somebody better!?

I know that they try to keep their main girl on the back burner and just come to her only when hes desperate, and basically the explanation was they will be looking for somebody better but if not they will settle!.!.!.!.do they always find better person!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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No, they just keep endlessly searching for the illusion that they have created!.

They always end up cheating themselves in the end!.

Love and blessings DonWww@QuestionHome@Com

Think we can not generalize things like that!.
Sometimes, they find what they look for, but most of the time they choose someone they can spend some nice time with!. Nothing more!. And, they do that in the period when in their relationship nothing is coming up roses!. When their partner is not in the good mood, or have some problems, so can not be so committed to the relationship!. And, most of the time they choose staying with the loving person, because he/she is someone they need and love!. Just sometimes need a little jumping out of everything!.
Most of the time they don't find better person, because they think that if they cheated on someone with them, they will probably be cheated on by that person, too!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i personally dont like cheaters!.
i feel sorry for the person being cheated, you know they could be a really good person and that happens to them!. its not always fair on one person's behalf!Www@QuestionHome@Com

No because cheaters are looking for someone to lead a life of lying!. How can you feel good about yourself and the person you are with if you are both liars!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not necessarily better, but at least somebody else!. That's what they're looking for when they cheat!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Never!. No matter who they are with they are still stuck with themselves!.( I will never understand the logic of being with someone that you know is hurting another!.)Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that they probably do, but it is extremely unfair on those who have been cheated on!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

They find what they deserve !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

some time they do sometime they don`tWww@QuestionHome@Com

cheaters and some body better i could not understand in what respect you want to say!. it is not clearWww@QuestionHome@Com

First of all the term "cheaters" is an over used and somewhat inflamitory in its use!. It seems to be a term used by women and men, developed by insecure people to cultavate a sense of ownership and possesion!. An effort for those to lay claim and reign in on those who stray from you!. Call a man a cheater and all women are outraged by it!. A women who is a slut is distained, but a man doing same is a stud!. Our culture and society seem to think this is appropriate!. I don't think so!.!.

Relationship is very diffacult and it takes years to evolve and develops in stages!. The fist phase of a relationship is one of testing and understanding the person you are "dating"!. Some seem to think once you date someone a few times you belong to them and you are exclusive to them!. This is unfair for both of you!. There is nothing wrong with shopping for the proper fit!. Again, if you are dating two or three persons then you are branded a "cheater" or "slut" depending on your gender!. Unfair, and this sort of relationship type mental extortion hurts both!. I never wanted a women to stay with me because she felt some moral commitment to do so, I wanted her to stay with me because she desired me in so many ways that can not be explained here!. I stayed with women because I looked forward to seeing their faces and being with them not for the purposes of sex, but a feeling total commitment to her!.

Sex,-- is love sex or is sex love!? There is a criticl distinction in my life between the two and you either accept one of the philosophies and never both!. I find sex a natural god given right and a gift given to me by god!. Not something to be bartered about to lure one in to a contractual relationship for the soul purpose of exclusive rights to me!. Some willingly withhold intimimacy and make the gift nothing more then a burnt offering!. On the same token it is something I have that I choose to give freely (yes a am a man)!. Amazingly I don't have to love the person I have sex with, we just have to be in agreement that it is the best thing for us at the time!. Somehow and some way I feel not having sex is a deteriment to ones being and soul!. also, I don't have to have sex with the one I love!. We love our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, freinds and children and we surely don't have sex with them!. Some will say that this is a different kind of love, and I have to call BS on this!. Love is love is love!. I mean you can't have it both ways!.

Yes, later on in a relationship when you are finished shopping around and you have found the perfect person to compliment and full fill your life -- having sex outside of this can complicate things, or not having sex within the relationship can also do same!. It get very complicated!. Two major philosophies conflict!. They again are, sex is a gift given by god, and love and sex are not the same!. Most in long flourishing relationships have made agreements based on their view and the sooner the better!. Many relationships that have matured and are the best they can be are torn apart by this!. The culture that cultivates possession uses the term "cheater", "slut" for all to help reign in and thus may destroy otherwise a great relationship!. An otherwise happy family is torn apart!.

Be happy you are a main girl or main man and they choose to come to you in times of trouble and desperation for affection and ask yourself do I fit this role and is our love strong enough to withstand a relationship that does not make each other possessions but choices!. Again, its all how you define love!. Do they always find a better person, well thats what its all about, find the perfect match!. Do you extort them into finding you the better person and live an unhappy life or do you look for a better choice!. Do you live as best you can in the here and now or do you continualy look for Mr!. Goodbar!?Www@QuestionHome@Com