When my ex has money he out in the street, when hes broke he wants to be with me

Question: When my ex has money he out in the street, when hes broke he wants to be with me!.!.!.why is this!? what is the!?

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He's using you, and you let him do it!. Just like I said in answer to your other ex-question: don't let him do this anymore!. Every time you give in, you're telling him it's OK to treat you this way!. Get angry, get a life, get him out of your house!. For good!.
Have a little pride!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

he does it because you let him!.

he see's that when he is struggling, you are there to support him, but when he can support himself, he doesnt need you anymore!.!.!.

keep taking him back and he's just going to keep doing it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

sounds like pure selfishness and a lack of knowledge for the importance of using money correctly, he probably doesn't even have a job and if he does its not one he feels good about!.
be careful with this one my friendWww@QuestionHome@Com

Psychology!?!?!?!?

When he's got money he wants to party!.

When he doesn't he needs a place to crash!.

This ain't rocket science!. I understand what he's doing - your the one I find confusing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

He reflect externally your internal judgment over him or,,,that which you believe about him and yourself!.!.!.You internally rejecting a loser, as a result both losing!.!.and!.!.!.cannot get rid of each other!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You need to stop him

If you are co dependent!.!.!. you need to see your own thougths

He knows that he has an easy life with you!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

he thinks yur an easy target!
so dont make him think that yu are just let him go on his way
then he'll realize that u really did care n he goin feel like crap later on!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

he's a user!.

lose him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yep sounds like a userWww@QuestionHome@Com