Can a really bad experience turn into the most genuine type of happiness?

Question: Can a really bad experience turn into the most genuine type of happiness!?
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"It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon!. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it!.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human!.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true!. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy!.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day and if you can source your own life from its presence!." excerpt from the invitationWww@QuestionHome@Com

If you can learn from the experience, then yes!.
When I was 25 years old I lost twin daughters, who were born three months premature!.
I learned through that experience to rely on myself, to not blame myself for what I could not control, to help others who have experienced similar tragedies!.
But, I've also learned to not dwell in the past, because all if brings is depression!. I've learned to be happy in the here and now, regardless of my past experiences!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

hm!.!. now thats a v-e-r-y interesting question!.!.!.

It can be possible, let me make myself clear!.!.

When you are going through the bad experience, u might want it to end soon!.!. very soon!.!. but after you are done with!.!. and after some time, say a year or two!.!. if you sit back and think about it!.!. you might feel that you have indeed learnt something from that bad experience!.!. say not to do what you did!.!. or you can even have a good laugh at yourself for being there and hoping never to get there again!.!.

but when you consider it immediately!.!. i think it is very difficult to say yes!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think so! ;-)
nice observation!. I've found the worst possible things (poverty, loss, solitude, bad associations (as in black magic)
!.!.!.have all lead to beautiful things!. I'm now strong, knowledgeable, capable, calm, and happy!.!.!.!.!.

I say, go for the worst! the hardest things!
in time, you'll be in a heavenly stateWww@QuestionHome@Com

It CAN !.!.!.!.!. the way a piece of littler can blow into your face and it's a winning lottery ticket - in other words, it CAN, since anything CAN happen, but a better question might be, DOES it ever happen, or how likely is it!?

I'm afraid there, the answer is no, not very likely at all!. Bad experiences usually leave people injured, or broken, and more fearful!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes
because everything leads after another and everything god takes away he gives back!. I truly bealive it because when my paretns got divorced my dad met a woman that had my brother and i love him more than anyone else in the world!. When i got diabetes i got healthier becasue i was forced to eat better!. My mom had to work nights every night for twenty six years then she went to collage and was going to school by day but now she is getting married to a man with a great home and heart!. There is nothing that will let me bealive that bad things can lead up to good things!. For me its just a fact and i'm not gonna bore you with more details!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Of course its possible!. The core of all such circumstances is one: OPTIMISM!. One must be optimistic even in the crucial of situations!.That describes the mental potential of one's sub-consciousness to face obstacles with any sort of mental emotion!. Thanks for asking!Www@QuestionHome@Com

If it were possible!.!.!.I haven't really discovered a moment that did this to me!. All of my bad experiences have left permanent scars within me!.!.!.but I guess that they are a reminder of how happy I am now!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.I could write a book on such matters, so!.!.!.yes, it can and,as a matter of fact, that's not a bad idea!.!.!.!.I'll call the book
"Potty Training for Dummies"Www@QuestionHome@Com

Bad experiences are good for character building!.
I'm not too happy while it's happening but I am happy to know that I have dealt with it & I am wiser for it now!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Kind of yes!. If what you consider as a bad expereince actually maight be the best experience of your life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

At least, a bad experience light brightly all the good things that surround us and we had underestimated !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Possible but be reminded misfortune marches towards one in battalion!Www@QuestionHome@Com

It is called a blessing in disguisedWww@QuestionHome@Com

Like having a horrible relationship, then one day being free!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yeah, I think it can, because of the people you may meet along the way :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

yesWww@QuestionHome@Com