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Question: Do you ever feel that you are all alone every once in a while!?
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I fear abandonment, and I believe it causes my loneliness!. I am often truly frightened by people, because most of the people in my life end up being jealous of me and then not liking me!. Or they become jealous of me and then start trying to tear me down and I have to end the relationship!. (Edit: Then, given a little time always want back in my life!.!.!.!.!.!.) I don't know if that's what actually happens to tell you the truth!. I might be dead wrong!.!.!.but it's the only way I have found to explain the patterns!. It's something I'm trying to figure out, because yes, I am very lonely!.!.!.most of the time!.

Edit: also!.!.!.could it stem from some people's aversion to judgment!? Lots of people say, "don't judge me", and someone obeys!. Without rational judgment, how do you understand someone enough to love them!? I have never felt so lonely as when someone says they love me, and they don't know me!.

Edit: I keep thinking about this!.!.!.and I thought about this lyric from Territorial Pissings by Nirvana!.

"When I was an alien, cultures weren't opinions!."

To explain, I keep thinking about it because I feel that a lot of them time we label someone by their chosen culture and the stereotypes of the opinions of that culture and in that way never really get to know the person!. also another big source of loneliness!. Sometimes we never truly judge a person on their own merits, but on some foggy idea we have of them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

in reality we are always al-one!.
the experience with the various reflections of that oneness is completely sensory!.
when you look into anthers eyes you are looking through to where you are!.
the idea that you are separate from everything is learned and only an idea!.
the realization that you are a part of the IS breaks that barrier and removes the experience of solitude and isolation that you are referring to!.
even when you are seemingly alone you are completely connected to your environment and simultaneously every living thing!.

if not, how do you recognize when something is 'alive'!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes! I do think I'm alone at times!.

Here's my poem,
To clarify my point :

ALONE

Why is the world so silent,
When i'm all alone ;
All by myself!.
Why is the world so noisy,
When i'm all alone ;
All by myself!.

Why can't i be what i wanna be,
When i'm all alone ;
All by myself!.
Why can't i do what i wanna do,
When i'm all alone ;
All by myself!.

Why can't we live in peace,
When we had God ;
So peaceful and loving!.
Why can't we leave this place,
When we had God ;
So graceful and loving!.

Why can't we all be friends,
Why can't we trust each other ;
Why can't we be what we are,
Why can't i be one normal lad!.

All i do is,
Think about this ;
When i'm all alone,
All by myself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!.
very much so!.

it's like there's people around, but even still you only feel surrounded by walls, or nothing for that matter!.


it's kinda odd!.

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Sometimes!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I feel that way a lotWww@QuestionHome@Com