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Question: Can you love your soulmate if was she was transformed into a guy!?
Vice-versa for girls!. Think you can!? What if she was transformed into a cow!? The cow doesn't talk!. Would you still be able to love her after 10 years!? Is an intimate relationship even possible!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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I don't think you'd be able to bond with the person in the same way you had before!. Whether you can love them or not is a different question!. Of course you can love them!. But if you're looking for the same thing you had, it would not happen!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't think it is a good idea!. I read an article in the most recent Psychology Today that suggests that believing in the very idea of a "soul-mate" can leave you less prepared for an actual relationship!. So, in my opinion, one should see a relationship for what it actually is!. It is something that takes management!. If at some point it takes more management than one of the people involved is willing to provide then the relationship should be terminated!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

love and respect, yes, but the love would be slightly different in that it would not include the intimate moments!.

if the cow doesn't speak, then you would have a hard time convincing me it's the same person, and it's missing a really large part of what i loved about the person!. but if i could be convinced, then sure, same as if it was male!.

intimate relationship!? no way!. i need a female human being for that!. that something was once a female human being does not change that for me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Maybe if he's tranformed into a girl but not into an animal because then he would lose part of the essence of him!. you love a person for who they are and it might be that if changed into another gender they could have the same personality but if changed into an animal they wouldnt even be able to express themselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Can the cow at least say "moo" and give milk!? If so, I think we would get along fine!. A physically intimate relationship is probably out of the question though, since it is mostly illegal!.

And, I would always be able to call my girlfriend a cow, whether or not she was fat!. Seems like win-win to me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, as while I do not have anything against homosexuals, I just do not find guys sexually, emotionally, physically appealing in any sense of the word, even if they used to be a female!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Absolutely you can!. Do you love your same gender best friends!? I do!. Now I may not want to be physically intimate with them, but that doesn't mean I can't be mentally/emotionally intimate with them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only platonically, but bisexual people can!. As far as animals are concerned, only a sick twisted person who like beastiality!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Star Trek Deep Space Nine did this better than you or I ever will!. Go back and watch the stories about the Symbiots (also known as Trill!.)

They explored everything you want an answer to!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

We'd have some strang conversations!.!.!. It's not all about the looks!. But, I think it would be hard to fall in love with a cow!.!.!. :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes I could love her but the relationship as we know it now would come to an end!. As for the cow thing!? Don't be ridiculous!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Now what made you ask a question like that!? A cow!? A COW!?!? COW!?!?!?!?
If she transformed into a lambergini,!.!.!.!.!. maby!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

So you found your soul mate in another man and you want to justify your homosexual feelings!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

NO!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com