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Question: Why are people so concerned about what others think of them after they die!?
Does it really matter if they honour you by building your statue in the main public square or naming a street after you!? Once you die you become nothing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Marcus Aurelius said the same thing! He said that those wanting to be known after they die is as absurd as wanting to be known by those who lived before you!.

And even all those that will remember you will some day die and so on!. And others remembering us will certainly do us no good!.

It is a vanity thing!. We can't stand the thought that we are nothing!. Or that the one thing in us that is everything has nothing to do with our minds and bodies!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

because some ppl believe that they will go to heaven and be able to look down on earth, and when they look down they want to know that ppl cared that they died and that they accomplished something!.!.!.!.i guess it depends alot on religion and belief!. me i don't want a statue or anything but i want to know i left a positive impact on ppls livesWww@QuestionHome@Com

Because it's the closest thing to immortality that anyone will ever get!. There are billions of people on the planet, but history only remembers a few per generation!. Everything else that happens is a trickle down from these few people!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I could care less what they have to say about me once I am gone, let them gossip, or whatever!.

Most lacked the balls to say anything to my face while alive so I guess this is their chance, huh !? LOLWww@QuestionHome@Com

if they are words of praise, it is really touching!. it's like receiving awards!. i can just imagine my reaction if i can hear those words!. and are you sure you turn into nothing when you die!? i don't think soooo!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Don't know !. Could be the same as when a person leaves the room and is concerned then too !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

maybe to them it does!. It's mostly to honor someone that has done something good!. It's to remember them by!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

MEMORY still REMAIN!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That's true!. You won't catch me rolling over in my grave if that happened!.Www@QuestionHome@Com