What is your destiny?

Question: What is your destiny!?

I believe I was destined to be a loser so ppl could say "look at that loser I don't want to be like him",then I just die!.I have tried to make my life better by getting different jobs,talking to ppl and everything but everyone just hate me,and for no reason!.Why is there always an a**hole in every job that I had!? that always pisses me off and make me quit and look for another one!.There is this negative force that keeps me from being happy and makes my life miserable all the time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Yeah i felt like that to but either you are thinking too much or people really do hate you!. I am average at everything i get averge grader average athletism and averge popularity!. Is seems that destiny has doomed with an average boaring life!. i try everything and i'm just average at it!. I'm better then most people who first try something at the same time as i do but usually half the people become better at it then me!. Life is a drag we go no where and leave nothing and we leave with only our emotions attached!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Maybe people are detecting a bad attitude in you!? Lack of commitment!? You are NOT a loser unless you define yourself as one!. If you keep changing jobs instead of focusing you changing YOURSELF then you will just keep finding the same problems!. Not sure what you mean by finding a hole in very job!? You need to find a job you WANT to commit to, and work on your self-esteem so you don't view yourself as a loser!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No your not!
Just try to relax,
It will just pass through, that destiny you may seem thinking of!.
During my past, I had terrible one!.!.!.many! I also thought of that way too!.
It was a lot of grief and pain, hard work to death!. I am like a vigilant who fought to survive in a world full of strangers!. But some of those strangers turned out to be good friends!.
It is like a rotation of the good and bad though!. It so happen your now into a challenging one!. you can do to endure that! If I did then why can't you!.
And besides we can not judge our destiny with what was just simply happening to us!. It is the conclusion of all that matters in our life!. You are only in the process of one!
Be stronger!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Be positive!. Try to remain un affected, as if you are just a witness to all happenings(The Upanishads, concept of Sakshi)!. On the final analysis, there are neither looser, nor winners, everything is temporary and passing ( Buddha : his theory of momentarines, Kshanika vada)!. Happiness and contentment can only come from deep within, so make your soul a healthy and positive place, try praying God!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that you're just in a job and around the people that you're not interested in!. maybe you should study skills at something that you're passionate about and then the people that you're working with, will have the same personality and interests as yours and your working life will be a lot happier!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think if you change your attitude towards the job and regard it as interesting/absorbing; you will be able to do better!.Best of luckWww@QuestionHome@Com

Maybe , when we were BORN , we are DESTINED to EXPERIENCES and CONCLUSION for to be whats we really are of who we are!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

My destiny is going on to upper step of Spirituality!.!.!.
Way of life!.!.!.!.!.
way thinking!.!.!.&
way of worship!.!.!.!. this is the way to go on and on!.!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Iam destined to follow Gods law!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

to be someone useful!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

my destiny is death!. Much like that of every other living thing on the planet!.Www@QuestionHome@Com