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Question: Do you find it easy to pay someone else a compliment!?
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I find it rather easy!. I do it often!. Would you like one!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Very easy!. It takes no time at all to thank someone for holding a door or to say you like that outfit they are wearing!. You don't even have to know them!. I am especially appreciative when they help someone (not necessarily me)!.

Why be so free with the compliments!? They are free AND they reinforce the person's actions!. If people say thanks for holding the door, that person will hold the door more often!. If you tell them that outfit looks good on them, they'll wear it more often!. If you let them know you saw them helping someone, they'll do it again!.

And a husband who is thanked for mowing the lawn or taking out the garbage does it with less grumbling the next time!. Try it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I dont find it hard, thats for sure!.

However, some people are stupid and ungracious because
1!. They cannot recognize a compliment if it kicked them in the face
2!. They "KNOW" they are not deserving of ABSOLUTELY ANY compliment!. Now that is very sad!.
3!. They do no know how to say Thank you and get on with life!.
4!. They think they have to compliment YOU back or change your tires or sell your junk for you!. Watch out for gifts of canned food or the harvest from their garden!.

There should be a subject in school called "graciousness", a chapter from the book of good manners!.

Human Beings- dont you just love them!? even if you dont understand them sometimes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

no even when i really cant stand someone at the time i usually can find something to compliment them on!. That is if thye dont know that i am so angry at them!. If people are nice then i can compliment them as much as i need to!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I make it a point to, with almost everyone I meet!. I try to make my encounters in life nothing, if not at least memorable, and there are few topics more near and dear to our hearts than ourselves!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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That wasn't difficult!.!.!.!.so now, I should go and tell Dóra that she looks absolutely amazing!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Very easy!. It makes me people feel good!. However, I'm not very good at receiving compliments!. Those seem A LOT more awkward!. :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

YES! I love giving compliments, but I'm always truthful!. It makes others feel good, which makes me feel good!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, We should be twice as fast with our compliments as we are with our criticisms!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If they deserve a compliment, yes!. Otherwise im not one for flattery!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes, if they really deserves it!.!.why not express your compliment to them!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I really get a buzz out of paying people compliments!. In fact I think it is a dying art form!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

For people who deserve it, absolutely!. If they don't, then I don't even care to!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If I have to pay then it isn't easy!. That's why I give them freely!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes if its well deserved and its true!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only if they deserve itWww@QuestionHome@Com

yh but it is hard to make it original and not sound cheesy!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only if i mean it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

NoWww@QuestionHome@Com

Sure, they are free no skin off my nose as the saying goes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com