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Question: Can others control your feelings!?
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No, I dont think anyone can control my feelings except for me, but other people definately have an influence on my feelings sometimes!. I tend to take on the mood of others around me!.!.!.especially my husband!. If I can sense that he is upset or worried or anything, my mood usually reflects his!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

how do you know that your feelings are your own!? Haven't you ever had a feeling and don't know why!? It's entirely possible that somebody else is controlling everything about you!. You can't prove it either way!. The only reason Descartes abandoned this idea was his impression that God is so benevolent that he wouldn't allow something like this to happen to his creation!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!. They can say and do things to try to get a reaction, positive or negative, out of you, but you alone are responsible for your own emotions!. You can choose to respond a certain way!.
Example: Something someone says makes you extremely angry!. Do you fly off the handle and immediately jump down their throat!? OR Do you control your reactions and emotions and either answer calmly and intelligently or walk away!?
You may not be able to control your initial reaction, but how you let it affect you is under your control!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

NO!.!.!.others live, I control my feelings and reactions to their behaviour in life!. Their actions and behaviour can affect my feelings but not control them!.
"no-one has the right to make you feel inferior" (is that the correct quote!?)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hell no!.Others maybe able to induce my feelings some time or bring them out,but that's only if i allow them that power!.I and i alone have control over my emotions!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

you can let them control your feelings, but they can't on their own!. but you know that already!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I can't control my own feelings, how can I expect someone else to do the job!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

They can affect my feelings, but in no way can anyone control how I feel!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

They influence my feelings but I don't allow them to do it for longWww@QuestionHome@Com

sure, if they influence you and the way you thinkWww@QuestionHome@Com

not reallyWww@QuestionHome@Com