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Question: Is it wrong to get to a point in life where you just don't care about what others may think of you!?
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No, it is the beginning of true freedom!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think that is when you have finally gotten to the right place, but many disagree with me!. I dont care what others think!. I found it so hypicritical when I was growing up that my mom was so overly concerned about what would the neighbors or so and so at church think if they saw this or that or whatever!. When I lived with my aunt (I was 22, renting a room) I got screamed at for leaving a oiuja bored in the back dash of my car because, what would the neighbors think!? And my mom thinks its atrocious that I have no qualms about being naked and have no problem taking my shirt off to show my doc a problem with my breast, because people will think I am a slut!. You know what, I dont care that people think I am a slut!. I dont know them, why do I care!?

I think the people that live their lives by what others think about them are usually fairly miserable and end up either not doing things they want, or doing things they dont want because they are too insecure of others opinions!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No its actually GOOD if what you mean by DONT CARE what others think IS THAT you are tired of trying to PLEASE others and you realize that as long as you are living your life the best way you know how and you are trying to be the best you know how to be and do what you blieve in your heart is RIGHT than you will not get worked up and bothered if OTHERS are too stupid to GET you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!.!.!.I wish I could get to that place!. I think it is wrong to put yourself on a pedestal so high up that you can't see the people below you!. I believe in at least valuing other people's opinions!. But you should never let their opinions sway your way of thinking or doing!. I think the strongest people are the people who can care about other's opinions without actually letting it affect them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Actually I think it's a good place to start!.!.!.other peoples opinions tend to sway our own thought patterns and eventually we become just another "normal" human being!.!.!.
If that happens to me!.!.!.please pull the plug!.!.!.I don't want to be like everybody else, nor do I want them to be like me!.!.!.Why can't we be ourselves without remorse!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Depends!. If others mean people to whom I am feelingless, then there's nothing wrong that I don't care what they think about me!.

If others mean people to whom I have feelings, then there's something wrong with me that I don't care about their feelings!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

As long as you remember to think what God would think of you, I think that that is the best sign of maturity: being able to be aloof from how snidely people think of you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If humans are social beings, then not caring at all about what others may think of you would make you either a beast or a god!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Temari, the name is contentment!. If there is one here who has reached that far, he or she is happy!. Wrong! What are you talking about!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. It is enlightenment!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think that is the point of totally loving yourself!. I am almost there!. Will you help me get the rest of the way!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's called maturity!. (As long as you still care what you think of yourself)Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!.!.it's because of raging of emotions that cannot be avoided sometimes!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

not at all it called maturing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, it's just becoming mature!Www@QuestionHome@Com

It is an awesome point in life!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hell no!. It is called getting older!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's fun as hellWww@QuestionHome@Com

no i wish i could get to a point like that but i care about every single little thingWww@QuestionHome@Com

not wrong!.
im trying to get there myself!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

OH I want to get there, help meWww@QuestionHome@Com

umm no!Www@QuestionHome@Com