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Question: I can't find a man who will love me for who I am!?
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Neither can I!. without one!.Dont settle for aman that dont like you for what you are!.You are worth more,I am very lonely but I rather be alone and miserable than be with one that makes me miserasble!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Quit looking for someone who will love you and start looking for someone you can love because of the qualities he has that you admire!. If you look for someone who complements you rather than someone who is perfect as is, you can both learn from each other and pick up the qualities you lack!. When you are with someone for a long time, you pick up things from each other!. Find the person who is willing to work with you and makes you better when you meet in the middle!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Be patient, and keep looking!. Don't change who you are, you'll just be miserable at always having to maintain a facade!.

Keep looking for Mr!. Right!. Do NOT settle for Mr!. "better than nothing!." People who marry just because they're afraid of being alone often end up in lousy marriages, and thinking they were better off single!. Fortunately, I was not one of those people!. :-) But I have a friend who married for all the wrong reasons to someone who wasn't right for him, and it ended in divorce, which is never pleasant!. He then found Mrs!. Right, and the two have been living happily since!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It appears that there have been many people matched up on those dating sites!. Consider that as a posibility!. There is a screening process, and then matches are calculated on compatability!. This, to me, is probably the most effective means of finding "Mr!. Right"
I agree with most all of the other posts (except going lesbo) What an @ss!Www@QuestionHome@Com

aren't we all, and when you figure it out you will let the rest of us in on your secret!. heavy sigh!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.no waiting around, no settling, no squinting to make him look good either, we get what we want or its a no go, why settle!? At least we can get out there and have fun, go on dates, experience life while we are hoping that guy comes along, don't let life pass you by because you haven't found each other yet!!!!!!

My dad always said "you got to kiss alot of toads to find your prince" I dont know about you but I am tired of having frog breath!!!!!!!!! I did get to kiss a prince, he went off and married a troll!.!.!.!.!.!.!.go figure!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The only thing you can do is to wait for a man to love you for who he is, and for who you make yourself to be!. Love is an emotion, and emotion can't be expected to be expressed without motivation!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

oh come on don't worry sweety god has that special someone picked just for you! he will be perfect you just have to wait DONT RUSH ANYTHING THOUGH! it may seem hard to waight but it may be sooner than u think!
wow i sound like a physic im creepin me out haha jk but yea dnt worry ! :DWww@QuestionHome@Com

Arnt we all looking!? there isnt much i can say to that but i am sure you are a wonderful person and most likely has love fantasies and wants an understanding lover and if you can want that can are patient and go with your instincts i bet you will find someone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

a watched pot never boils --as my mom would say
refocus on something you love to do
something that consumes you
something you think of when you wake
& when you go to sleep
don't peek!.!.!.!. in time!.!.!.!.!. he may be looking over your shoulderWww@QuestionHome@Com

you should not find that "guy", don't expect!!.!.it will go to you unexpectedly!.!.focus your life on other things, look, it will only make you desperate if you keep on trying to find one!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Stick with it, continue being who you are and you will find that special someone and happiness!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I agree with all the already posted advice that says you should stop looking!. Live your life and let things happen on their own without your having to contrive circumstances!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

keep looking i guess!.

ideally in places where people like you might be!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

go lesboWww@QuestionHome@Com