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Question: Personality which is morally right!?
At this point I have come to realize I have some personality disorder, and I have to splits if not more!. 1 is a more radical smart ***, and the other is passive and friendly!. What I have noticed its never on purpose when it switchs, I never notice it really, all I know is people are effected!. With time I've cut down but what I have found is a pyric victory!. I found my center and aura, but it essentially scared everyone else way!. I killed the disorder but it still blinks every now and then, but with my new happy place, others don't like me!.
What is more right; doing what makes me feel good (which isn't necessarly negiative) or make others happy!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
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How can you be doing what is right if you are not at least being true to yourself!?Www@QuestionHome@Com
I doubt you have this disorder!.
If you really had a problem you would think everyone was reacting to you irrationally!. You have many facets to your personality and that is normal enough!.
Your question is oversimplified!. The answer cannot be that simple!. There are many variables of occasion, emotion, and relationships that all must meet with their own consequences!. You must find a balance so that you can be a good person who is makes wise and moral decisions, and also find a way to keep the advice "to thine own self be true"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
You might approach the object as more of (or more as) a map, of feelings and perceptions, and place them in reflection of your personal morals and as well within the reflections of the social and ethical environment in which you live in!. While this will not give complete insight into the balances or imbalances which you describe, it might possibly create a consideratum worthy of a moments notice!. What is more right, you decide, consider the balance! between reward* and consequence*Www@QuestionHome@Com
if you continue living trying to make other people happy and sacrificing your own happiness, you may find the feeling of a bit of satisfaction on that one however it is incomplete!. people around us can be greedy, the more you give, the more they ask!. dont surround yourself with this kind of interaction, be yourself, find your own identity, accept it and appreciate it!. because no matter how you try to please other people if deep within you is a confused soul, it will never work and you will be left behind with an empty hand!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
ummmm the first part of the question was way too sophisticated for the likes of me!.!.!. and ummm YOU SHOULD DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD, AS LONG AS AS It is something that will sustain you and allow you to contiinue to feel good!.
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all his righteousness and all of these will be added unto you!. HalliliuaWww@QuestionHome@Com
dont you feel good when your making others happy!?
or you feel good just being yourself!? then just be yourself which ever that is, if its both then so be it!.
are you a Gemini by any chanceWww@QuestionHome@Com
I don't see it as an either/or decision!. A person could do both depending upon the circumstances!. Sometimes we have to put ourselves 2nd & other times we must satisfy ourselves!.
I do not believe in always doing what makes ourselves happy!. Too many of us are self-centered as it is & lead a hedonistic life!. We need to be caring & compassionate people but say no when there is something you don't wish to do!. I would like to think that I am making the world a better place because I'm in it!. Helping others and/or volunteering is worthwhile & it makes a person feel good about themselves!.
If you have a personality disorder it is not something you can change!. You either have it or you don't!. However there is medication to help!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
You are asking is my interests more important than others when I am holding myself over a cliff!. IF you have a serious mental disorder, what YOU want (what feels good,) isn't necessarily what YOU want, nor is it under your control any more once you let go!. Ultimately getting healthier, which feels like it is for other people, is about helping yourself!.
An Alcoholic who goes to A!.A!. for help to make his mother happy, his family happy and his job happy will be unable to maintain sobriety until he realizes that he is doing it for himself and not for others!. This does not mean he shouldn't try even when he doesn't see it as for himself, it just means that he should accept on faith that he will want to be sober for himself, and not fall prey to the justification that it is people-pleasing!.
Same thing for you!. Good Luck!.
PS: as for those who doubt your disorder, you obviously have SOME KIND of DISORDER!.Www@QuestionHome@Com