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Question: What does it mean when a man want to "leave the door open" during a break-up!?
he says he loves me but not ready for a commitment, he want to leave the door open for him to come back!.!.!.I dont know how to take itWww@QuestionHome@Com


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means he wants to have sex with you and whoever else he meets, if he finds someone he likes better, he will commit to her, if not, he may settle and commit to youWww@QuestionHome@Com

That usually means a 'bootie call', and usually is ok for him, but not ok for you to have them with others!.

If he wants to leave the door open, tell him to do that at his house because you don't want to let the bugs in (STD's) at your house!.

I think he'll get the drift!. He really just wants to let you down easily anyway!. He's not interested in you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

he wants to be able to come over have sexxx and then leave without any commitment on his part, he still wants to have sexxx with you but not have the relationship, tell him to piss off, unless you would like that too!.!.!.!.!.!.but when he finds another he is more interested in he will drop you!. Tell him to go fk himself and find a respectful man, if there are any left!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It means he won't make a commitment!. He'll be knocking on your door whenever HE is lonely!. But chances are good he's nowhere to be found when you need support!. So, unless you enjoy having your heart ripped out every 6 months or so, cut your losses and move on!. Tell him you'll always remember your times together fondly, and then erase his number from your phone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

He doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship, but still wants the option to have sex!.

He wants to see other people while you wait patiently for him!.

Or, he wants you both to see other people, but occasionally be able to have sex, when he's in between "friends" to have sex with!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Means it is time to firmly shut the door behind him and move on with your life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

it kind of seems like he wants to keep you waiting for his own selfish needs!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

take it,!.!.!.!?!.!.!.!.or leave it!.!.!.its up to YOU;
set a boundary!.!.!.respect yourself and he will respect u too!Www@QuestionHome@Com