Do you hold onto the desire for revenge or can you have control of yourself?

Question: Do you hold onto the desire for revenge or can you have control of yourself!?
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I don't believe in Grudges or revenge,,,
It's super hard on the nervous system, heart rate,and brain!.
I guess I'm with Nikki on this oneWww@QuestionHome@Com

Write it all down!. Then stomp on the paper, tear it up, light it on fire, throw they ashes to the wind!. Then let it go!.
Then you will have control!. Revenge never solved anything!.
If you continue to dwell on the past, you are giving your power to another!. Take back your personal power!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It depends on the situation!.

Is the revenge worth the effort!? Will you lose more than you gain through the act!?

It all depends on what benefits ME!. And it may very well benefit me to take my revenge!. On the other hand, it may not!.

You must be able to control yourself and only act when it is in your best interest!.

Wait, if you must and strike at some later time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i always try to control my rage thats because i dont look good when i am angry and i dont smell good when i am revengeful!. i dont let other people's fixations to test my character!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

well it all depends!. if im going to act on that desire then i do hold it untill i can release it through my action!. but i have complete control and its easy to just brush it off if neccessary!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I desire revenge,,,and always will,,,I never forgive,,Www@QuestionHome@Com

controlWww@QuestionHome@Com

Revenge can only make you more like that which you despise!.!.!.don't hold your hate for others!.!.!.or you'll become them!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Medication helps!. Talk to your doctor!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, it is a waste of precious time!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Patience is my way!.!.!.All thing come to those who wait is a very true saying!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i have control revenge eats you up inside and ruins youWww@QuestionHome@Com