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Question: What is worse; always being unattractive or becoming unattractive as you mature!?
Which do you think is worse:
Spending your entire life unattractive!.
or
Growing up pretty/handsome and then becoming unattractive in your teenage/young-adult years!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!. Behold your own beauty and others will too!. Each phase of life has its own special beauty!. Each person is as attractive or unattractive as they wish to be!. Choose the good and good will come to you!. Blessings on you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

As I see it, growing up attractive and becoming unattractive is worse and the more difficult!.

Like it or not, it's a fact that the world treats you, and you behave in the world, according to your looks!.

We each develop self-perception early in life!. If you start out attractive, not only do people treat you accordingly, but you see that as one of your attributes and you behave accordingly!. *IF* you depend too heavily on your looks, you may not have the incentive to develop positive personality traits and skills!. If you should become unattractive, people treat you differently and you yourself *may* have never made yourself attractive in other ways!. Your self-esteem plunges and you have little else to rely on!.

On the other hand, if you've always been unattractive, not only have you adjusted from the start, but you also have had more incentive to work on other qualities!.

Regardless of looks, the most fortunate person is well-rounded, and has developed personality, intelligence, and skills!.

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Becoming unattractive!.

Because if you've always been unattractive, you don't know what you're missing and won't really be as bothered as if you started off attractive, and then became unattractive!.

But everyone's attractive - in their own way!. It's just some people are attractive from first glance, others take a little while longer to see and then there are the people you have to look really hard to see it, and maybe never do!. Although someone else will!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think if you are a well developed person - it's really how you have dealt with your looks and what your personality has become!.
Someone morbidly ugly if they have a terrible attitude - probably better off having started pretty!.
Stuck up and pretty early on leads to crappy personality and then later in life you have no looks and a crappy personality!.
If you're one of those not so beautiful people, but have presence, you're smart, kind - it's a whole different sort of attractive!.!.!.!.
How do your looks affect who you become!? How does your personality affect how people percieve you!? Those questions are really more interesting to me!.
I guess if I had to pick - I'd rather grow up good looking!.!.!.!.!. makes a lot of things easier, these days, it seems!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's worse to become unattractive as we mature!. The point here is that the pain is worse for being aware of the difference of having once enjoyed the blessings of being attractive!. When we don't know the difference we won't suffer as much!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

There's no such thing as an unattractive person!.

Everybody is extremely beautiful in their own individual way!.

I think that question was rather a shallow one, sorry, I mean no offence!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Never recognizing your own beauty and always seeing yourself as something that has to be measured on superficial levels is the real tragedy here!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Spending your
entire life unattractive!.


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becoming unattractive as you get older!. It is hard to have something then lose it!. Watch "lord of the rings"Www@QuestionHome@Com

The worst condition is not being content with the way you are!.!.!.period!.Www@QuestionHome@Com