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Question: Can men marry a woman who cooks, cleans for him while he is actually in love with another!?
What do you think of this!? I read it somewhere!.!.

That men keep wives as their caretakers - they cook, clean, give him sex, etc!. In other words - the man Owns the woman!.

Whereas the married man is falling in love (or is in love with) another woman outside the marriage!. One he knows he cant 'have' and one he doesnt 'own'!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Well, i think this is possible, why not!?

It is just like when you are small, u wanted to buy this toy, but your parent don't wanna buy that for you and want you to choose another one, so u ended up with a second choice of toy!.

But in your heart, u jus want to get that first choice toy!.

So the same probably explain your question!. If he is good at keeping affair, he might be keeping an affair outside his wife's knowledgeWww@QuestionHome@Com

For a long time marriage, for the man, constituted acquisition of property!. It still is considered that way by some today!. Whether its wrong or right it still happens!. What's wrong is the women letting the men get away with it!. Married men fall for women who they can't have all the time - what's the question there!? I'm not going to judge since I don't believe in marriage anyway!. It goes against the biological need to procreate the species with the best of the species mating the most!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Unfortunately men are pigs, but women can be that way to!. Some men will keep their wives in total suspension in a relationship, that is they keep them for convenience and for what they can give them!. I know this I have seen it happen, when I figured it out and told the guy's wife she told me she already knew it!. sad but true!.!.!.

Wish you well

BillWww@QuestionHome@Com

If the man must feel like he owns you, and uses you as a caregiver but doesen;t truly love you and you only and cant stay true to you because he needs something else somewhere else,he shouldn't be married!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The question is why the woman, the man is in love with, can't cook and clean, for if she could, cooking and cleaning would be a good return for her man's undivided love and adoration, me thinks!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

some people always want what they cannot have!. it is a fault that they must try to want what they have or they will never be happy!. the grass is not greener on the other side it just looks like that because you have never been there!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It is said in India: Another person's wife,business and house appears more better!.So that is the truth!.In English there is a saying: the grass is greener on the other side!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

there's an Egyptian wise that tells " what's forbidden is always wanted " so yes, most of men keep their wives as their caretakers !!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, they call it "using", and it's a stupid situation to get into!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You might as well hire that woman as your servant and then marry the woman you're in love with!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I don't think it's right, but I could certainly see it happening!. And am sure it has happened many times!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

This happens all the time!. Maybe not intentionally but it does happen!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yea it's true and so offensive! I think the woman should refuse to live any longer with him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

what!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

interesting!.!.!. It's been said that we wnat what we can't have and maybe thats the case with the men you're talking about!.!. but which is really better!? loving someone is a constant!.!. however you can love someone you've never even met turning the value of the phrase into something not really reserved for those who you truly care about!. On the other hand when one says thet are in love with someone, it seems like it has a deeper meaning!.!. it seems rare, of more value!. But unlike loving someone being in love doesn't seem like much of a constant!.!. I f you can fall in love with someone is it safe to say you can jump out of it!? Because if that's the case being in love with someone (which can change theoretically) is inferior to loving them (which appears to be a constant, more solid and unwavering) therfore making the man above a man just tempted by a women with a love that is not as strong as the one for his wife more solid and sturdy!. It's all a matter of you're opinion of the two words and the words uses in context because you!.!. and the person who wrote the article could have different opinions!.!. Good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com