Do you think that there is still HOPE left in the world ?

Question: Do you think that there is still HOPE left in the world !?

Why do I ask this!. Because I just came to the conclusion that my girlfriend is cheating on me!. I called her last night, she did not
answer!. This has been going on for about
3 weeks now!. She suddenly has a change of
attitude!. New friends, wardrobes, she even
is taking yoga!. But her mindset is still manic
depressive!.!.!.!. Ok!. This is a long distance
relationship, yes!. I am from the South, and
she is from the Mid West!. I year later, now
we are having conflicting issues!. I wanted to
go see her this summer, but is having 2nd
thougts!.!.!.!. But we still talk though!. When
I can catch her!. I caught her last night though!. She put me on hold, then said she
would call back!. Never did!. Hmm!. What is
going on !? Hope and love affairs!. Is there
still hope for us !?Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

things like this happen not only for u !.pl look ahead , move on !.life is still young so u will have more friends to meet &will find the right one when the time comes!.love is all around!hope for the bestWww@QuestionHome@Com

When a relationship is making you ask if there is still hope in the world, it points toward obsession about one aspect of life to the point of ignoring other important aspects!. There's more to life than one relationship!. Figure out what else is important and consider that you can have a relationships with others if that's where this leads to!. There is a lot of hope, but hope needs your cooperation!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Long distance relationships are very hard to continue!. It might be best if you started looking at the abundance of women in our area!. There are plenty of women that would be pleased to have someone as dependable, honest and caring as you are!. You deserve only the best!. Open your eyes, you'll see a lot of beauty where you presently are!.
Good luck and have some fun!Www@QuestionHome@Com

there is still home if she is a girl that will not report stuff to the police!. when i found out my ex was cheating on me i used to hit her alot and it would kinda make me feel better but i would never make her bleed!. just punch her in the back and stomach kinda hard and ull feel a little better!. but if you think shell report you to the cops then don't do it just find another girlfriendWww@QuestionHome@Com

Just follow the old saying!.

If you love someone, let them go!. If they return, rejoice!. If they don't, they were never yours!.

Being jealous is a big turn off and will likely chase people away!.

I could care less if my girlfriend had a million blokes on the side as long as I got to spend quality time with her when I needed it!.

If she is just playing you, there are plenty of fish in the sea!.

Take lb's advice and get a few other friends!.

Pining all day over a girl is just boring, and maybe a little pathetic!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

MAYBE!. It does sound like she had a change of interest and since it looks grim!. why not ask her what gives!?
Since you have had a long time to get to know each other, it should not upset her to be asked about her mindset and feelings!. GOOD LUCK!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yea but people have to stand up and realize that some may loose which is better then us all loosing !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

there is always hope
your best hope is getting a new girlfriendWww@QuestionHome@Com

If one truly has lost hope, one would not be on hand to say so!. ~Eric BentleyWww@QuestionHome@Com

Yes there is
don't make her your only friendWww@QuestionHome@Com

i hope so!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It depends how much you love her!. If you're willing to make her the 'one', then there's always hope!. I did the same thing to my bf once, because of time and being away from each other, we grew apart and i found new friends and begun seeing other people and made up my mind to move on!. But he went to my best friend to get through to me, kept on persisting and wouldnt let me out of his sight!. He cried so much and I finally realised how much i meant to him and he meant to me!. We've been together 12 years and now we'll be married this yr!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i'm still not sure whether u are asking an innocent question or looking for some solace/advice!.
In my opinion, generally, hope is all we have in life!. Without it, why would anyone bother!? nothing would happen, no one would put in an effort!. we only get to decide what to hope for and when to simply let go!.
I think you should confront her about it or otherwise just let her go before she hurts you!. Give up on her unless she is seriously worth fighting for!. If i were in your place, i would just come and outright ask her!.
think about it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com