How will i look at talk approachable, comfortable and friendly to others?

Question: How will i look at talk approachable, comfortable and friendly to others!?

i always seem to be nervous and conscous whenever i meet other people and talk or ask for them!.!.i cannot avoid it!.!.what will i do!? i think that's one of the reasons why i'm kinda distant (they say) to others!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

You're nervous and self-conscious because you're worried about yourself: how you look, what they think of you!.!.!.

Get out of yourself, my friend!. Purposefully ask someone what they like to eat, wear, read, do, and why - what do you like best about!.!.!.!.!? What's your favorite class!? Do you have any pets!? Who do you think will win Idol!? Would you rather have the circus mom or the army mom on Wife Swap!? Why!?

Ask sincere questions, be interested in their answers (let them talk!), remember their answers, and follow up later with proof that you care: "say, how's your dog since she was sick last week!?" Most people would have forgotten!. You be the one to remember & care!.

People will forget what you say, they will forget what you do!. They will never forget how you made them feel!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

it is a big problem with me too! so I am joining groups and helping out in order to have reasons to interact with others!.

It is frustrating especially at my age but I hope the old adage is true that practice makes perfect!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The only thing that works for me is relax and dont over think things!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

smile always works!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

smile and use eye contact!.Www@QuestionHome@Com