Would it be good if people would not tell their hurt all too quickly?

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Question:

Internet is phenomenal in its ability to connect people, to give them a voice, and to maintain anonymity for their persons!. People here can speak their minds openly, freely and fearlessly, and there will always be people who would kindly listen and respond!.

It can be very hard if you have something on your mind, a truth or a feeling, that you want someone to share with!. I can image the anguish of many people who cannot express, cannot tell or explain!.

Then I feel for people of old times who never had such opportunities!. There may be countless people who lived their long lives waiting and hoping that one day their story be heard, but the fact is that I do not see any goodness lost in those early days in people holding their grievances to their bosoms, as it sometimes is not easy in the real life to find someone worthy and willing to listen!.

May be it is more rewarding if things are not told all too easily and quickly!?

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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

I had something bad happen in my life a few years ago, and the loneliness and isolation that resulted from me not telling anyone was almost unbearable!. I've recently been able to agonize over another heartbreak (one not as traumatic, luckily) on here under a pseudonym and I have felt more!.!.!. not alone!.!. Perhaps it's the breakdown of community or the movement of people that leads to this isolation, but as a stranger in a strange land, I really have benefited from this random conversation with strangers!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think its always good to get greivances, anger or pain out!. Left inside it eventually eats away and causes physical symptoms like arthritis (eating away at joints) cancer (eating away at cells) etc etc!. As long as its not a personal attack on anyone but releasing pent up feelings I'm all for letting it go!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

please clarify "good" !?

I think it won't make any difference !.!.!

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PlutoWww@QuestionHome@Com

I got thoroughly bored with your ramblings!. Had a job to read it all without falling asleep!. Suggest you join the Ministry (Church)!. Much more suitable environment for you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you couldn't express it, help others to feel what you feel!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i must disagree with you here, let me explain

if we are troubled by an issues, just to be able to voice our concern or worries etc, gives us the feel good factor, as if by the words leaving our mind has helped to clear our thoughts if only for a little while,

i was taught a problem shared is a problem halved, i was taught to be open about my feelings, not as a child but as an adult!. i feel this works, I'm not sure that an Internet site like yahoo is a place to do this as you will receive some cruel answers!.!.and this could cause more upset, best to find a trust worthy person who is known to you

sometimes it can be easier to tell a total stranger then they can be non judgementalWww@QuestionHome@Com