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Question: Do you think those who do as they please get along as well as!.!.!.!?
!.!.!.those who are always trying to please others!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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You'd think that those who go along pleasing themselves without worrying about pleasing others would be better off!.!.!.!.but there really is nothing more selfish than a life of self indulgence, looking out only for what is best for one's own good!.!.!.and then on the other hand, the ones who only please others lose their own sense of well being and therefore miss those important elements in there life as well

so in theory, they both really don't get along as well!.!.!.since there is no balanceWww@QuestionHome@Com

Those always trying to please others has many friends, but few true friends!. They get taken advantage of and are generally not very self confident!.
Those who do as they please don't have a lot of friends, but the ones they have are true and will do as much for them as they do for the friend!.
I believe the do as they please are happier in the long run, they are more tru to themselves, but the trying to please feel more fulfilled sometimes!.
I believe it (like anything else) has to be moderate!. You can't do as you please all the time, but if you run around trying to please others, you will drive yourself crazy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I do!. There must be a balance between doing as we please, and trying to please others!. We are a part of the whole, but still a part in itself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Trying to please others can be as problematic, as do as one pleases!. One must find a middle ground!. Any excess in both categories can cause major conflict!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Only for a short amount of time!.

Perhaps if a person who does what he pleases could exhaust the person who pleases others, there has to be a balance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I believe they will be less likely to have as many friends, and certainly have more enemies than the latter!.Www@QuestionHome@Com