Do you agree that it is not love when another person cannot give you the space t

Question: Do you agree that it is not love when another person cannot give you the space to live your own life!?
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tricky one,anothers love can be overwhelming to accept, acceptance being the key, one must accept in order to give but, having said that one must learn to let go in order to have it return,Www@QuestionHome@Com

no I don't agree!. I think a person that loves should realize that some people need more space but most people that love very strongly have a problem about smothering the one that needs the space!. No two people love in the same way!. When you love so strongly you want that person with you all the time!. You can't get enough of them and it takes time before the person realizes that smothering the one they love is pushing them away!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!. love is allowing the person you love to grow!. it's being close enough to extend a hand if he needs it or, just near enough so he'lll hear your encouragement when he's down!. it's providing enough room to breathe, not smothering, but instead giving the feeling of comfortable freedom!. if your loved one is trying to control you it just means that he's afraid for the both of you, but more for himself, he's afraid of his own individuality, of being alone or not being needed!. we can't really say that it's not love, it's love that hasn't fully matured and if the realtionship is too important to you, you'll have to take the risks of compromise, it'll be difficult specially if you're partner is not ready to grow, but i guess that's what it takes to love another person!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

What type of love are you talking about !?
Parent tends to be over protective about their children!.
However, it is still consider as love!.

If you are talking about boy-girl type of love!. I feel that when you are in love with someone!. You should integrate your life with one another and not live your own life separately!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Agreed!. It's a control/possession thing that has nothing at all to do with you or who you are as a human being!. When you first meet a person, the signs are usually there if you look closely enough and ask the right questions!. If you still want to go there, after you've read the "rough road ahead signs", proceed with caution!Www@QuestionHome@Com

No, I don't agree!. That's comparing two completely separate entities as if they were one and the same!.
A person can love and be controlling!.
Another can love and desire to be controlled!.
It's not a paradox or a contradiction of terms!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!. Are you able to let those ones you love go their own way, which IS NOT yours!? I am, and it's not easy!. It hurts deeply, specially when you are a mother who wants the best, and only the best for your grown-ups!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!.!.!.!.when anybody makes your life uncomfortable by controlling it then it means he is not lover he is a jailer!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think it is still love!. Perhaps they are just scared something will happen to you and then they would regret it all their life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Oh no!.!.!. my baby wants to spend time with me!. My life is so horrible! Cmon now!. If thats the worst of the problems in your relationship i say your A-okay!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

if you love someone set them free, if they come back they were meant to be your love if they do not they never were meant to be!.

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If it is love the space is given in the heart!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Yes!. Control is the opposite of Love!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes and tht proves how much our parents love us!.Www@QuestionHome@Com