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Question: Is this a good wish to wish for!?
to be really happy everyday of my life no matter

wat comes my way!.!.!.!.!.(to have nothing to bother me ever again)!.!.!.!.!.!.no worriesWww@QuestionHome@Com


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By wishing to be happy, you are basically stating that you currently, in your position are not as happy as you'd like to be, therefore only by envisioning the possibility of it in the future do you see a potential for that wish to come true!. In doing so happiness will always be something to hope for or chase after!. You are basically robbing yourself of the ability to become happy NOW!.

My advice: Learn to be happy NOW!. There is no Past, there is no Future, there is only NOW!. By learning to be happy NOW you will no longer have to worry about wishing to be happy sometime later on, because your later on, will eventually be NOW and already is NOW!.

"The past creates the PRESENT, the PRESENT creates the Future"

Past, PRESENT, and Future are all reflections of each other, but there is only ever ONE MOMENT, and that moment is NOW

Happiness isn't so far off; look within yourself, trust yourself, know yourself, love yourself and you WILL find Happiness-its been with you all along!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Have you ever read 1984 by George Orwell!?

For the simple reason of self-preservation, that is a horrible wish!. Fear is the driving force that keeps you from hurting / killing yourself!. Anger can keep you from being oppressed and taken advantage of!. Stress allows you to appreciate recreation better!.

Imagine who appreciates a paycheck (for example) more; a person who has had wealth all their life, or a person who has nothing!.

Variety is the spice of life, don't waste a wish on something like that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You do not have to wish for things!. You have to work for it!. To attain happiness, you have to understand more about yourself, and then to make changes to your perspectives of your desires!. For example, if materialistic wants were some of your priorities, you could slowly change your order of priorities to other things like personal well-being, health, etc!.

There will never be a day when a person can be free from bother! A caring person will be bothered by shortage of food (for mankind), wars, inequality and brutality!. Though most of us can only help a little, to the less fortunate we can see in the neighbourhood!.

Happiness is when you know that though there is much imperfection in this world, you can still do your little part, to make humanity just a little better!. Yes, even if by giving a dollar to the beggar to let him have a meal, is such an uplifting thought!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Happiness is a butterfly on the nose of a beagle!. If you chase it it eludes you!. Serenity, and self-composure is a surer way to gain happiness!. It also provides a way to deal with unhappiness -- calmly!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

no, its like like wishing for no pain, i mean yea sounds cool at first but we need pain it tells us when we getting hurt or damaged!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yah, why not, i mean who doesnt want thatWww@QuestionHome@Com