Do the best things in life just happen or do you have to work for it?

Question: Do the best things in life just happen or do you have to work for it!?

maybe not really a philosophical question!.!.!. but didn't know where else to post it!

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The best things in life are not things!. They are moments!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The best things just happen according to Lady Serendipity!. On the other hand, if we perceive this illusory life as real, and especially if we accept the teaching that life is suffering, no pain,no gain, etc!.---such wil be our life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The best things in life are happening all around you at every moment!. It's only after some hard work that we grow to understand the actual significance of these things!. It's all a matter of perspective and appreciating things in a new way!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The best things in life just happen and you have to work for them!.

love for example, some people just find it one day in the parking lot (I'm talking about myself) Others have to work hard to find it !. Most of us have to work hard to keep it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

well, best things in life NORMALLY happen when u work hard for it!. it doesn't USUALLY fall from the skies but there have been exceptions to that notion!. bottom line - work hard and it eventually pays off!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Both!. Sometimes the 'best things' come because I planned and worked for them yet other times the 'best' just happens like when my grandchild, in the middle of playing, looks up at me and says "I love you"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You have to work for it! Something might fall into your lap - a job, relationship, money, whatever, but if you don't work for it, it won't be nearly as rewarding!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think you get the most reward out of working for what you get instead of just having it handed to you!. You get the satisfaction that you earned it rather than it being just chance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i think that it just happens!.!.

if you work for it your building yourself up to something and will always be disappointed!.!.

it just happens & Your not expecting it!.
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if there is something you really want you better work for it!. If you just sit and wait for it, It may never be!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The best things in life happen to you because you work hard, make good decisions, and put yourself in the right places!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

fortune favors the bold!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You have to work for it!. I believe you get what you put in!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

work for it!. once in a while you get blessed!. but yeah!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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I thing both are true!.Www@QuestionHome@Com